Parenting What You Can and CANNOT Do in Parenting Hannah Farkas March 18, 2013 What You Can and CANNOT Do in Parenting. Learn the limits of your control! Do what you CAN do in parenting. Like this article? Sign up for our Shabbat Shalom e-newsletter, a weekly roundup of inspirational thoughts, insight into current events, divrei torah, relationship advice, recipes and so much more!