{"id":61501,"date":"2019-01-31T09:21:48","date_gmt":"2019-01-31T14:21:48","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.ou.org\/life\/?p=61501"},"modified":"2019-02-06T09:02:05","modified_gmt":"2019-02-06T14:02:05","slug":"cc-family-edition-loving-the-stranger","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.ou.org\/life\/parenting\/cc-family-edition-loving-the-stranger\/","title":{"rendered":"C&#038;C Family Edition: Loving the Stranger"},"content":{"rendered":"<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><em>Covenant &amp; Conversation: Family Edition<\/em>\u00a0is a new and exciting initiative from The Office of Rabbi Sacks for 5779.\u00a0 Written as an accompaniment to Rabbi Sacks\u2019 weekly\u00a0<em>Covenant &amp; Conversation<\/em>\u00a0essay, the\u00a0<em>Family Edition<\/em>is aimed at connecting older children and teenagers with his ideas and thoughts on the\u00a0<em>parsha<\/em>. Each element of the\u00a0<em>Family Edition<\/em>\u00a0is progressively more advanced;\u00a0<em>The Core Idea\u00a0<\/em>is appropriate for all ages and the final element,\u00a0<em>From The Thought of Rabbi Sacks<\/em>, is the most advanced section. Each section includes\u00a0<em>Questions to Ponder<\/em>, aimed at encouraging discussion between family members in a way most appropriate to them. We have also included a section called\u00a0<em>Around the Shabbat Table<\/em>\u00a0with a few further questions on the\u00a0<em>parsha<\/em>\u00a0to think about. The final section is an\u00a0<em>Educational Companion<\/em>\u00a0which includes suggested talking points in response to the questions found throughout the\u00a0<em>Family Edition<\/em>.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ou.org\/life\/files\/CandC-Family-Mishpatim-FINAL.pdf\"><strong>Download as PDF<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ou.org\/torah\/parsha\/rabbi-sacks-on-parsha\/loving-the-stranger\/\"><strong>Covenant and Conversation on OU Torah<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<p><strong>The Parsha in a Nutshell<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Following the revelation (where God reveals Himself and communicates religious truths) at Mount Sinai,\u00a0<em>Mishpatim\u00a0<\/em>expands on the details of some of the\u00a0<em>mitzvot<\/em>. These are mainly the civil law that was to govern the Israelites: laws relating to slaves and their release, personal injuries and property laws, laws of social responsibility, justice and compassion, and laws relating to Shabbat and the festivals. It ends with a confirmation of the covenant, and Moses ascending the mountain for forty days.<\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<p><strong>The Core Idea<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><em>Mishpatim\u00a0<\/em>contains many laws of social justice \u2013 against taking advantage of a widow or orphan, for example, or charging interest on a loan, against bribery and injustice, and so on. The first and last of these laws, however, is the repeated command against harming a\u00a0<em>ger<\/em>, a \u201cstranger.\u201d<\/p>\n<p><em>Do not ill-treat a stranger or oppress him, for you were strangers in Egypt.<\/em>\u00a0(Exodus 22:20)<\/p>\n<p><em>Do not oppress a stranger; you yourselves know how it feels to be a stranger [literally, \u201cyou know the soul of a stranger\u201d], because you were strangers in Egypt.<\/em>\u00a0(Exodus 23:9)<\/p>\n<p>Clearly something fundamental is at stake in the Torah\u2019s vision of a just and gracious social order.<\/p>\n<p>What is the logic of this command? The most profound commentary is that given by Nachmanides. According to Nachmanides the command has two dimensions. The first is the relative powerlessness of the stranger. He or she is not surrounded by family, friends, neighbours, a community of those ready to come to their defence. Therefore the Torah warns against wronging them because God has made Himself protector of those who have no one else to protect them. This is the political dimension of the command.<\/p>\n<p>The second reason, as we have already noted, is the psychological vulnerability of the stranger. The stranger is one who lives outside the normal securities of home and belonging. He or she is, or feels, alone \u2013 and, throughout the Torah, God is especially sensitive to the sigh of the oppressed, the feelings of the rejected, the cry of the unheard. That is the emotional dimension of the command.<\/p>\n<p>Rabbi Chayim ibn Attar (Ohr HaChayim) adds a further fascinating insight. It may be, he says, that as children of the covenant Jews may look down on those who are not Jewish. Therefore they are commanded not to feel superior to the\u00a0<em>ger<\/em>, but instead to remember the degradation their ancestors experienced in Egypt. It is, he says, a command concerning humility in the face of strangers.<\/p>\n<p>Whichever way we look at it, there is something powerful about the Torah\u2019s concern for the stranger \u2013 together with the historical reminder that \u201cyou yourselves were slaves in Egypt.\u201d The Torah seems to imply these laws are important in defining what it means to be a Jew.<\/p>\n<p><strong>QUESTIONS TO PONDER:<\/strong><\/p>\n<ol>\n<li>Why do we need to be reminded that we were strangers in Egypt? Surely the command is the right thing to do either way?<\/li>\n<li>Which of the three reasons mentioned behind the command do you find most convincing? (a) The stranger is weak in society and needs protecting (Nachmanides); (b) The stranger is emotionally vulnerable (Nachmanides); (c) The command is a warning against arrogance (Ohr HaChayim)<\/li>\n<li>What do you think the connection is between these laws and the definition of what it means to be a Jew?<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<hr \/>\n<p><strong>It Once Happened&#8230;<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>In 1966 an 11-year-old black boy moved with his parents and family to a white neighbourhood in Washington DC. Sitting with his two brothers and two sisters on the front steps of the house, he waited to see how they would be greeted. They were not. Passers-by turned to look at them, but no one gave them a smile or even a glance of recognition. All the fearful stories he had heard about how whites treated blacks seemed to be coming true. Years later, writing about those first days in their new home, he says, \u2018I knew we were not welcome here. I knew we would not be liked here. I knew we would have no friends here. I knew we should not have moved here\u2026\u2019<\/p>\n<p>As he was thinking those thoughts, a white woman coming home from work passed by on the other side of the road. She turned to the children and with a broad smile said, \u2018Welcome!\u2019 Disappearing into the house, she emerged minutes later with a tray laden with drinks and sandwiches which she brought over to the children, making them feel at home. That moment \u2013 the young man later wrote \u2013 changed his life. It gave him a sense of belonging where there was none before. It made him realise, at a time when race relations in the United States were still fraught, that a black family could feel at home in a white area and that there could be relationships that were colour-blind. Over the years, he learned to admire much about the woman across the street, but it was that first spontaneous act of greeting that became, for him, a definitive memory. It broke down a wall of separation and turned strangers into friends.<\/p>\n<p>The young man, Stephen Carter, is now a law professor at Yale, and he eventually wrote a book about what he learned that day. He called it\u00a0<em>Civility<\/em>. The name of the woman, he tells us, was Sara Kestenbaum, and she died all too young. He adds that it was no coincidence that she was a religious Jew. \u2018In the Jewish tradition,\u2019 he notes, such civility is called \u2018<em>chessed<\/em>\u00a0\u2013 the doing of acts of kindness \u2013 which is in turn derived from the understanding that human beings are made in the image of God.\u2019 He adds, \u2018Civility itself may be seen as part of\u00a0<em>chessed<\/em>: it does indeed require kindnesses toward our fellow citizens, including the ones who are strangers, and even when it is hard.\u2019<\/p>\n<p><strong>QUESTIONS TO PONDER:<\/strong><\/p>\n<ol>\n<li>What is the connection between this story and the\u00a0<em>Core Idea<\/em>?<\/li>\n<li>What lessons do you think can we learn from this story?<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<hr \/>\n<p><strong>Thinking More Deeply<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Hatred of the foreigner is the oldest of passions, going back to tribalism and the prehistory of civilisation. The Greeks called strangers \u201cbarbarians\u201d because of their (as it seemed to them) outlandish speech that sounded like the bleating of sheep. The Romans were equally dismissive of non-Hellenistic races. The pages of history are stained with blood spilled in the name of racial or ethnic conflict. It was precisely this to which the Enlightenment, the new \u201cage of reason\u201d, promised an end. It did not happen. In 1789, in revolutionary France, as the Rights of Man were being pronounced, riots broke out against the Jewish community in Alsace. Hatred against English and German immigrant workers persisted throughout the nineteenth century. In 1881 in Marseilles a crowd of ten thousand went on a rampage attacking Italians and their property. Dislike of the unlike is as old as mankind.<\/p>\n<p>This fact lies at the very heart of the Jewish experience. It is no coincidence that Judaism was born in two journeys\u00a0<em>away\u00a0<\/em>from the two greatest civilisations of the ancient world: Abraham\u2019s from Mesopotamia, Moses and the Israelites\u2019 from Pharaonic Egypt. The Torah is the world\u2019s great protest against empires and imperialism. There are many dimensions to this protest. One dimension is the protest against the attempt to justify social hierarchy and the absolute power of rulers in the name of religion. Another is the subordination of the masses to the state \u2013 epitomised by the vast building projects, first of Babel, then of Egypt, and the enslavement they entailed. A third is the brutality of nations in the course of war (the subject of Amos\u2019 oracles against the nations). Undoubtedly, though, the most serious offence \u2013 for the prophets as well as the Mosaic books \u2013 was the use of power against the powerless: the widow, the orphan and, above all, the stranger.<\/p>\n<p>To be a Jew is to be a stranger. It is hard to avoid the conclusion that this was why Abraham was commanded to leave his land, home and father\u2019s house; why, long before Joseph was born, Abraham was already told that his descendants would be strangers in a land not their own; why Moses had to suffer personal exile before assuming leadership of the people; why the Israelites underwent persecution before inheriting their own land; and why the Torah is so insistent that this experience \u2013 the retelling of the story on Passover, along with the never-forgotten taste of the bread of affliction and the bitter herbs of slavery \u2013 should become a permanent part of their collective memory.<\/p>\n<p>Enlightenment thought was marked by two great attempts to ground ethics in something other than tradition. One belonged to the Scottish enlightenment \u2013 David Hume and Adam Smith \u2013 who sought it in emotion: the natural sympathy of human beings for one another. The other was constructed by Immanuel Kant on the basis of reason. It was illogical to prescribe one ethical rule for some people and another for others. Reason is universal, argued Kant; therefore an ethic of reason would provide for universal respect (\u201cTreat each person as an end in himself \u201c).<\/p>\n<p>Neither succeeded. In the twentieth century, villages and townships where Jews had lived for almost a thousand years witnessed their mass murder or deportation to the extermination camps with little or no protest. Neither Humean emotion nor Kantian reason were strong enough to inoculate Europe against genocide. Centuries of religiously inspired hate came together with pseudo-scientific theories of race and social Darwinism (\u201cthe survival of the fittest\u201d as Herbert Spencer put it) to relegate whole populations \u2013 above all, the Jews \u2013 to the category of the sub-human.<\/p>\n<p>It is terrifying in retrospect to grasp how seriously the Torah took the phenomenon of xenophobia, hatred of the stranger. It is as if the Torah were saying with the utmost clarity: reason is insufficient. Sympathy is inadequate. Only the force of history and memory is strong enough to form a counterweight to hate.<\/p>\n<p>The Torah asks, why should you not hate the stranger? Because you once stood where he stands now. You know the heart of the stranger because you were once a stranger in the land of Egypt. If you are human, so is he. If he is less than human, so are you. You must fight the hatred in your heart as I, God, once fought the greatest ruler and the strongest empire in the ancient world on your behalf. I made you into the world\u2019s archetypal strangers so that you would fight for the rights of strangers \u2013 for your own and those of others, wherever they are, whoever they are, whatever the colour of their skin or the nature of their culture, because though they are not in your image, says God, they are nonetheless in Mine.<\/p>\n<p>There is only one reply strong enough to answer the question: Why should I not hate the stranger? Because the stranger is me.<\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<p><strong>From the Thought of Rabbi Sacks<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Nowhere is the singularity of biblical ethics more evident than in its treatment of the issue that has proved to be the most difficult in the history of human interaction, namely\u00a0<em>the problem of the stranger<\/em>, the one who is not like us. Most societies at most times have been suspicious of, and aggressive toward, strangers. That is understandable, even natural. Strangers are non-kin. They come from beyond the tribe. They stand outside the network of reciprocity that creates and sustains communities. That is what makes the Mosaic books unusual in the history of moral thought. As the rabbis noted, the Hebrew Bible in one verse commands, \u201cYou shall love your neighbour as yourself\u201d, but in no fewer than 36 places commands us to \u201clove the stranger\u201d.<\/p>\n<p><strong><em>\u00a0\u00a0 The Dignity of Difference, p.58<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>QUESTIONS TO PONDER:<\/strong><\/p>\n<ol>\n<li>Why is it natural to be suspicious of the stranger in society?<\/li>\n<li>Why should we be different?<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<hr \/>\n<p><strong>Around the Shabbat Table<\/strong><\/p>\n<ol>\n<li>What is the difference between the two versions of this command in this week\u2019s parsha?<\/li>\n<li>What is the message behind the two great Jewish journeys in the Torah?<\/li>\n<li>What do you think Rabbi Sacks means by the statement \u201cto be a Jew is to be a stranger\u201d?<\/li>\n<li>According to the ideas shared here, why then was it important that Jewish history began with enslavement in Egypt?<\/li>\n<li>What is the link between these commandments and the core identity of being a Jew?<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<hr \/>\n<p><strong>Question Time<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Do you want to win a\u00a0<strong>Koren Aviv Weekday Siddur<\/strong>? This siddur has been designed to help young people explore their relationship to their God, and the values, history and religion of their people. Email\u00a0<strong><u><a href=\"mailto:CCFamilyEdition@rabbisacks.org\">CCFamilyEdition@rabbisacks.org<\/a><\/u><\/strong>\u00a0with your name, age, city and your best question or observation about the\u00a0<em>parsha<\/em>\u00a0from the\u00a0<em>Covenant &amp; Conversation Family Edition<\/em>.\u00a0<strong>Entrants must be 18 or younger.<\/strong>\u00a0Each month we will select two of the best entries, and the individuals will each be sent a siddur inscribed by Rabbi Sacks! Thank you to Koren Publishers for kindly donating these wonderful siddurim.<\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<p><strong><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-post-61501 wp-image-16188\" src=\"http:\/\/rabbisacks.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/companion-text-icon-1-300x235.jpg\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 709px) 85vw, (max-width: 909px) 67vw, (max-width: 1362px) 62vw, 840px\" srcset=\"http:\/\/rabbisacks.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/companion-text-icon-1-300x235.jpg 300w, http:\/\/rabbisacks.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/companion-text-icon-1-230x180.jpg 230w, http:\/\/rabbisacks.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/companion-text-icon-1.jpg 708w\" alt=\"\" width=\"200\" height=\"156\" \/><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Educational Companion<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>THE CORE IDEA<\/strong><\/p>\n<ol>\n<li>Clearly it is correct ethical behaviour to protect the stranger. However, sometimes \u201cthe right thing\u201d based on logic is not enough to remember how to behave. So the Torah gives us an even more powerful reason \u2013 an emotional reason, because with just a little chipping away at the surface, we remember as a nation emotionally what it feels like to be a stranger (both in ancient and more recent times).<\/li>\n<li>All three reasons are convincing. It is interesting to reflect on the fact that both of Nachmanides\u2019 reasons focus on the stranger rather than the Ohr HaChayim which focuses on us.<\/li>\n<li>Perhaps the Torah is intimating here that this is the reason Jewish history began with the experience of enslavement in Egypt (and perhaps this also explains the theme of exile and persecution in Jewish history as a whole) \u2013 to create a national memory that will help the Jewish people to be ethical in their treatment of the weak or \u2018the Other\u2019 in society.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p><strong>IT ONCE HAPPENED\u2026<\/strong><\/p>\n<ol>\n<li>Sara Kestenbaum personified the very Jewish trait of\u00a0<em>chessed<\/em>, and Stephen Carter describes her example of showing concern for the stranger as intrinsically Jewish behaviour.<\/li>\n<li>Apart from the message of the importance to look after the stranger, there are many other smaller lessons to be taken from this story, such as how a small act can have a big impact, and a ripple effect (who knows how many people have been affected by Stephen Carter and his career, which was clearly impacted by Sara Kestenbaum and her small act).<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p><strong>FROM THE THOUGHT OF RABBI SACKS<\/strong><\/p>\n<ol>\n<li>It is only natural to be suspicious of those that are not within our own network and community, which is normally based on kin, ethnicity or belief. Man is a tribal creature, forming communities of reciprocity and mutual interest, and it is nature to perceive those on the outside of these groups as a threat.<\/li>\n<li>The Torah is asking us to rise above these natural inclinations and suggests that Jewish history encourages us to do exactly that. The Torah demands that we live our lives according to these values and build a society based on them, in order to model these values as part of the Jewish national mission.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p><strong>AROUND THE SHABBAT TABLE<\/strong><\/p>\n<ol>\n<li>The first version commands no ill-treatment of the stranger, and the second not to oppress. The sages explain the first is verbal abuse, and the second is monetary wrongdoing.<\/li>\n<li>Both the journey of Abraham and the Israelites at the time of the Exodus were movements\u00a0<em>away<\/em>\u00a0from the world powers of the time. They are protests against imperialist powers that were founded on the oppression of the stranger in society.<\/li>\n<li>The experience of Jewish history has been to be the outsider in society. From our very beginnings in Egypt as an oppressed minority, to a small nation state surrounded by world powers in biblical times, to a dispersed and wandering people, living the experience of being the stranger in society has been the Jewish way for 2000 years. Judaism as a system of thought also experiences this when it is so often counter-cultural, presenting a system of thought and ethics which frequently finds itself at odds with the mainstream culture of the time.<\/li>\n<li>See\u00a0<em>The Core Idea<\/em>, question 3.<\/li>\n<li>The core identity of the Jew is one based on the historical experience of being the stranger in society, and the value system of the Torah that is based on the notion that all humans are created in the image of God, and therefore deserve to be treated equally, with respect and dignity. The Jewish national mission is to model these values, ultimately by building a society that reflects them.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Covenant &amp; Conversation: Family Edition\u00a0is a new and exciting initiative from The Office of Rabbi Sacks for 5779.\u00a0 Written as an accompaniment to Rabbi Sacks\u2019 weekly\u00a0Covenant &amp; Conversation\u00a0essay, the\u00a0Family Editionis aimed at connecting older children and teenagers with his ideas and thoughts on the\u00a0parsha. 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