{"id":60114,"date":"2018-07-06T07:06:25","date_gmt":"2018-07-06T12:06:25","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.ou.org\/life\/?p=60114"},"modified":"2018-07-19T02:23:34","modified_gmt":"2018-07-19T07:23:34","slug":"putting-people-before-disabilities","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.ou.org\/life\/health\/putting-people-before-disabilities\/","title":{"rendered":"Putting People Before Disabilities"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Did you ever read George Orwell\u2019s dystopian novel <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">1984<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">? Written in 1948, it takes place in the then-far-flung future of\u2026 well, 1984. In the superstate of Oceania, the official language is called Newspeak. This language has been artificially constructed to control thought. In addition to eliminating bothersome concepts from the language, the Party (rulers of Oceania) have three slogans that are repeated at and by the populace: War is Peace, Freedom is Slavery, and Ignorance is Strength. The people are told what to think and this is reinforced by the words they are given to express themselves.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">1984<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> may be a fiction but Orwell was illustrating a real phenomenon: what we think is influenced by what we say and hear. This phenomenon can be utilized for good or evil. For example, <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ou.org\/torah\/mitzvot\/taryag\/mitzvah420\/\"><strong>the Sefer HaChinuch tells us<\/strong><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00a0that the reason we are commanded to recite Shema twice daily is to constantly reinforce within us the idea of God\u2019s Kingship, which serves to keep us on the proper path. Advertising slogans like \u201cCoke is it\u201d serve to make the populace hungry for particular products. Of course, there\u2019s political propaganda, all too often used to smear one\u2019s opponents. To give a mild-by-our-standards example, 1952 presidential candidate Adlai Stevenson was labeled an \u201cegghead\u201d by his opponents, not intended as a compliment; it was an epithet and a perception that stuck. Perhaps most similar to the slogans of the Party, consider the motivations to inscribe \u201cArbeit Macht Frei\u201d \u2013 \u201cwork will set you free\u201d \u2013 over the gates of numerous Nazi concentration camps. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">So, taking it as a widely-accepted reality that what we say and hear influences what we think, what words do we use to describe others? We <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ou.org\/life\/inspiration\/jewish-n-word\/\"><strong>addressed this topic once before<\/strong><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00a0but there the focus was on calling others what they want to be called. Here, I wonder what our choice of words does to <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">ourselves<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I recently became aware of the importance of using person-first language when it comes to persons with disabilities. You will note that I said \u201cpersons with disabilities\u201d and not \u201cdisabled people.\u201d The former choice of words more likely conjures an image of individuals first and disabilities second; the latter almost invariably causes one to envision an indistinguishable mass exclusively defined by those disabilities. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Historically, people with disabilities have been perceived as infirm or imperfect, as evidenced by such pass\u00e9 terms as \u201chandicapped\u201d and \u201ccrippled,\u201d which focus on what a person is imagined to be unable to do. These terms unfairly lump people into groups based on inaccurate assumptions and unfair generalizations. When we define people by what we think they cannot do, what they <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">can<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> do never even has a chance. And if a group of people is defined by what they <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">cannot<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> do, the popular perception becomes that they are a burden on society rather than productive members of it.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Person-first language puts the individual before his disability. It describes what a person <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">has<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, it doesn\u2019t presume to define what a person <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">is<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. Examples of person-first language are given below. (These are only examples; there can be numerous person-first ways to phrase the same disability):<\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A boy who has an autism spectrum disorder (not \u201can autistic child\u201d);<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A child who has Down\u2019s Syndrome (not \u201ca Down\u2019s kid\u201d);<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A woman who uses a wheelchair (not \u201ca wheelchair-bound woman\u201d);<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A person of short stature (not \u201ca midget\u201d).<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Here\u2019s an important one:<\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A child without disabilities (not \u201ca normal child,\u201d the implication of which is that a person with a disability is \u201cabnormal\u201d \u2013 how rude!).<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This is really just common courtesy. If you weighed considerably more than you would like and a child said, \u201cYou\u2019re fat,\u201d you\u2019d probably be offended even though you\u2019re well aware of your size. Having the full scope of your own self as a person, you probably think of yourself as \u201chaving a weight problem.\u201d It doesn\u2019t define you, it\u2019s just one of many attributes you possess. The same is true if you wear glasses or have no hair. Well, it\u2019s also true for people with physical, mental, emotional or developmental disabilities. None of us wants to be defined by a characteristic we consider to be negative. We all deserve a chance to put our best foot forward without having to first combat others\u2019 preconceptions.[1] <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Aside from going person-first when it comes to disabilities, it\u2019s important not to equate a person with any assistive devices that they may use. Just as glasses are something we wear, a wheelchair or other device is something a person <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">uses<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. It doesn\u2019t define them.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Finally, golf and horse racing notwithstanding, inanimate objects cannot be \u201chandicapped.\u201d It\u2019s not a \u201chandicapped\u201d parking space or restroom, it\u2019s <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">accessible<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I have heard (though not researched) that some disability communities (specifically, the visually-impaired and hearing-impaired communities) do not favor the person-first approach (which is why I did not use it in the preceding parenthetical comment). That\u2019s okay; people are allowed to make such calls for themselves. It\u2019s quite another thing, however, to make such a call for someone else. When in doubt, use person-first language. And if you\u2019re not sure about the proper person-first terminology, just do your best. (\u201cWho has autism\u201d may not be as elegant as \u201cwho has an autism spectrum disorder\u201d but it\u2019s still a person-first option.)<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Our choice of words makes a difference. Words can be used to empower someone (\u201cShema Yisroel\u201d) or to break them (\u201cArbeit Macht Frei\u201d). We can choose words that set people up for success or words that communicate that we expect failure. Disability-primary language focuses on our expectations of others\u2019 shortcomings and limitations. Continued use of such language reinforces that idea in ourselves and transmits it to others, including the next generation. Person-first language acknowledges a disability but only as one characteristic of a person, without generalizations or stereotypes. When we opt for person-first language, we\u2019re not just being polite to people with disabilities. We\u2019re changing a mindset that limits us all.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>1. Don\u2019t go looking for any deeper meaning in my choice of the phrase \u201cbest foot forward.\u201d It\u2019s just a common expression. I actually Googled it to see if it\u2019s offensive when talking about disabilities and I found no objection to it.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">Learn more about inclusion from <a href=\"https:\/\/www.yachad.org\"><strong>Yachad &#8211; The National Jewish Council for Disabilities<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<p><em>Rabbi Jack Abramowitz is Torah Content Editor at the Orthodox Union. He is the author of six books, including\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Tzniyus-Book-Jack-Abramowitz\/dp\/1441577963\">The Tzniyus Book<\/a>\u00a0and\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Taryag-Companion-Multilingual-Rabbi-Abramowitz\/dp\/1469192101\">The Taryag Companion<\/a>. His latest work,\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.ou.org\/oupress\/product\/the-god-book\">The God Book<\/a>, is available from\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.ou.org\/oupress\/product\/the-god-book\">OU Press<\/a>\u00a0as well as on\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/God-Book-Rabbi-Jack-Abramowitz\/dp\/1524573493\">Amazon<\/a>.<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Did you ever read George Orwell\u2019s dystopian novel 1984? Written in 1948, it takes place in the then-far-flung future of\u2026 well, 1984. In the superstate of Oceania, the official language is called Newspeak. This language has been artificially constructed to control thought. In addition to eliminating bothersome concepts from the language, the Party (rulers of<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":384,"featured_media":60118,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"_cloudinary_featured_overwrite":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[14],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-60114","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-health"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v24.9 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/wordpress\/plugins\/seo\/ -->\n<title>Putting People Before Disabilities - OU Life<\/title>\n<meta name=\"description\" content=\"Such pass\u00e9 terms as \u201chandicapped&quot; focus on people&#039;s expectations of what others can&#039;t do, not on the reality of what they can do.\" \/>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<link rel=\"canonical\" href=\"https:\/\/www.ou.org\/life\/health\/putting-people-before-disabilities\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:locale\" content=\"en_US\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:type\" content=\"article\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:title\" content=\"Putting People Before Disabilities - OU Life\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:description\" content=\"Such pass\u00e9 terms as \u201chandicapped&quot; 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