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His straight-talking, Torah-based approach is applicable, appropriate and realistic and has reached over 30,000 homes throughout the world. Join other growth-orientated couples that have deepened their bond of love by watching Rabbi Shafier\u2019s\u00a0<i>Ten Dumb Mistakes Very Smart Couples Make<\/i>\u00a0and go to TheShmuz.com to access the full Marriage Seminar.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Your marriage is great\u00a0but\u2026is it reaching it\u2019s full potential? Rabbi Shafier is a leading expert in marriage improvement and has been immersed in strengthening shalom bayis for the past fifteen years. His straight-talking, Torah-based approach is applicable, appropriate and realistic and has reached over 30,000 homes throughout the world. 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