{"id":53277,"date":"2016-02-29T12:11:49","date_gmt":"2016-02-29T17:11:49","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.ou.org\/life\/?p=53277"},"modified":"2016-02-29T12:28:22","modified_gmt":"2016-02-29T17:28:22","slug":"when-youre-smiling","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.ou.org\/life\/inspiration\/when-youre-smiling\/","title":{"rendered":"When You\u2019re Smiling, Keep on Smiling and the Whole World Smiles with You"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Our faces are the homepage of who we are and how we are perceived.\u00a0 No matter what is happening in our hearts or our minds, we leave a strong impression on others based on the disposition carried on our faces.\u00a0 Do we project sadness, despair, worry, uncertainty and doubt?\u00a0 Or, are we happy, positive, optimistic and joyful?<\/p>\n<p>Rabbi Yisroel Salanter once said that our faces have the status of <em>reshus ha\u2019rabim<\/em>, they are public domain and we therefore need to be sensitive to the public when we decide what mood we are going to project.\u00a0 The gemara (Kesubos 111b) says that it is better to smile at someone warmly than to provide him with food and drink.\u00a0 Rabbi Shlomo Wolbe writes that just as plants require sunshine to live, converting the rays of the sun into nutrients, people too convert smiles into energy and strength, and without it they wilt and perish. Smiling is a uniquely human expression.\u00a0 When is the last time you saw a dog or cat smile?<\/p>\n<p>Indeed, Dr. Nicholas Christakis, a physician at Harvard Medical School, <a href=\"http:\/\/www.npr.org\/templates\/story\/story.php?storyId=97848789\">authored a study<\/a> that concludes that happiness is contagious.\u00a0 The same way when one person yawns, it affects others, when one person smiles or is happy it leads to others happiness and smiling as well.<\/p>\n<p>Perhaps this poem by Dale Carnegie, author of \u201cHow to Win Friends and Influence People, puts it best:<\/p>\n<p>It cost nothing, but creates much.<\/p>\n<p>It enriches those who receive, without impoverishing those who give.<\/p>\n<p>It happens in a flash and the memory of it lasts forever.<\/p>\n<p>None are so rich they can get along without it and none so poor but are richer for its benefits.<\/p>\n<p>It creates happiness in the home, fosters good will in a business, and is the countersign of friends.<\/p>\n<p>It is rest to the weary, daylight to the discouraged, sunshine to the sad, and nature\u2019s best antidote for trouble.<\/p>\n<p>Yet it cannot be bought, begged, borrowed, or stolen, for it is something that is no earthly good to anybody till it is given away!<\/p>\n<p>If someone is too tired to give you a smile, leave one of yours.<\/p>\n<p>For, nobody needs a smile so much as those who have none to give.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Our faces are the homepage of who we are and how we are perceived.\u00a0 No matter what is happening in our hearts or our minds, we leave a strong impression on others based on the disposition carried on our faces.\u00a0 Do we project sadness, despair, worry, uncertainty and doubt?\u00a0 Or, are we happy, positive, optimistic<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":733,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[85],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-53277","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-inspiration"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v24.9 - 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