{"id":12811,"date":"2009-07-29T13:11:03","date_gmt":"2009-07-29T13:11:03","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/production.ou.org\/life\/other\/mm_hatov_vehametiv\/"},"modified":"2016-11-28T23:16:19","modified_gmt":"2016-11-29T04:16:19","slug":"mm_hatov_vehametiv","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.ou.org\/life\/torah\/mm_hatov_vehametiv\/","title":{"rendered":"Vaetchanan – Hatov Vehametiv in Birkat Hamazon"},"content":{"rendered":"

\"\"<\/a>This Shabbat is Tu b’Av, a happy day when Tachanun is normally omitted because of the many joyful historical events which occurred on this date. One such event is that on this day the Romans permitted burial for the victims of the terrible massacre of Beitar, which we mourned on Tisha BeAv.<\/p>\n

The gemara relates that the bodies were miraculously preserved, and did not decay until the burial was permitted; and that in order to commemorate this miracle an additional blessing was added to the birkat hamazon, the blessing “haTov veHaMetiv”. This is the fourth blessing in which we call HaShem the good King “haTov veHaMetiv lakol” – who is good and does good to all. (Taanit 31a.)<\/p>\n

Surprisingly, there is another blessing with the same name – the blessing said on good tidings which benefit many people together. Whereas if I alone benefit I would say “shehecheyanu”, thanking HaShem for bringing him me to this day, if many benefit together I say “HaTov VeHaMetiv”. (SA OC 222.) One explanation is: HaShem is good to me, and does good to others as well. (Tosafot Berakhot 43a.)<\/p>\n

The Anaf Yosef connects this idea to the “tov umetiv” blessing in the grace after meals as well. He explains that the preservation of the body is good to the individual – it prevents the disgrace of decay. Whereas the burial is good for the community, because the soul primarily begins its journey to the next world after the burial, and this is a general good, because all Jewish souls are bound together. (Anaf Yosef on Taanit 30.)<\/p>\n

We may note that the halakhot of burial lead to the same conclusion. The gemara asks if burial is required because it brings atonement, which is a private benefit (yikra deshikvi), or because it avoids the shame of a body cast without burial, which is the concern of all (yikra dechayi). (Sanhedrin 46b.)<\/p>\n

The Shulchan Arukh rules that it is the concern of all. (SA YD 348:3.) The gemara then concludes that degradation of the body is particularly relevant to the deceased person. (Sanhedrin 47b.) We see that a purely halakhic approach also supports that idea that the preservation of the corpse is a private good (hatov) whereas bringing it to burial is a public one (hametiv). So the nomenclature hatov vehametiv has a parallel understanding in both blessings which bear this appelation.<\/p>\n

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Rabbi Asher Meir is the author of the book Meaning in Mitzvot, distributed by Feldheim. The book provides insights into the inner meaning of our daily practices, following the order of the 221 chapters of the Kitzur Shulchan Arukh.<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

This Shabbat is Tu b’Av, a happy day when Tachanun is normally omitted because of the many joyful historical events which occurred on this date. One such event is that on this day the Romans permitted burial for the victims of the terrible massacre of Beitar, which we mourned on Tisha BeAv. The gemara relates<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":158,"featured_media":14251,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"_cloudinary_featured_overwrite":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[83,156],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-12811","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-torah","category-tu-bav","series-meaning-in-mitzvot"],"yoast_head":"\nVaetchanan: Hatov Vehametiv in Birkat Hamazon - OU Life<\/title>\n<meta name=\"description\" content=\"What is the connection between the 4th blessing in Birkat Hamazon called HaTov VeHaMetiv and the blessing of the same name we recite upon hearing good news?\" \/>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<link rel=\"canonical\" href=\"https:\/\/www.ou.org\/life\/torah\/mm_hatov_vehametiv\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:locale\" content=\"en_US\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:type\" content=\"article\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:title\" content=\"Vaetchanan: Hatov Vehametiv in Birkat Hamazon - 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