{"id":12409,"date":"2009-01-28T17:57:00","date_gmt":"2009-01-28T17:57:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/production.ou.org\/life\/other\/parshat_bo_hard_to_come_by\/"},"modified":"2015-10-30T03:38:01","modified_gmt":"2015-10-30T08:38:01","slug":"parshat_bo_hard_to_come_by","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.ou.org\/life\/arts-media\/parshat_bo_hard_to_come_by\/","title":{"rendered":"Parshat Bo: Hard to Come by"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Knowledge is the engine<\/p>\n<p>That drives man&#8217;s progress.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>And curiosity it&#8217;s fuel.<\/p>\n<p>A simple question can open<\/p>\n<p>The most complicated door<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>A complicated question can<\/p>\n<p>Close the simplest of issues<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>And the dismissal of a sincere<\/p>\n<p>Question can forever turnoff<\/p>\n<p>The pistoling valves that pump<\/p>\n<p>Man&#8217;s journey&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>So let us question the flat surface<\/p>\n<p>Of what is<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>With the hope that perhaps we can<\/p>\n<p>Dream and reach the lofty peaks<\/p>\n<p>Of what could be:<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><i>G-d said to Moshe<\/i><\/p>\n<p><i>Come to Pharaoh<\/i><\/p>\n<p><i>For I have hardened<\/i><\/p>\n<p><i>His heart<\/i><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>How could Moshe&#8217;s coming<\/p>\n<p>To Pharaoh ever soften a heart<\/p>\n<p>That has been hardened by the<\/p>\n<p>Divine?<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>How could the Divine, the most pure,<\/p>\n<p>The most soft, ever harden anything?<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Of hard facts and soft words:<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>At times it is hard being soft;<\/p>\n<p>Just as at other times it is soft<\/p>\n<p>Being hard&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>At times it is hard to come&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>But it is precisely at those times<\/p>\n<p>That one must come to what is hard.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>False followers shrink away from hard places;<\/p>\n<p>True leaders come to them with reality and softness;<\/p>\n<p>But a softness not ignorant of the harsh realities, a<\/p>\n<p>Softness that is not a weakness but a strength, a<\/p>\n<p>Softness that says: Even in the hardest, most<\/p>\n<p>Difficult person, even in the hardest, most<\/p>\n<p>Difficult situation, with work, hard work<\/p>\n<p>One can reach the softness within&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Pharaoh made callous choices so he became callous;<\/p>\n<p>He made insensitive decisions so he became insensitive \u2212<\/p>\n<p>To the extent that G-d, Reality, in whose eyes everything<\/p>\n<p>Appears as it really is without pretenses or coverups, hardens<\/p>\n<p>His heart. Once, the heart may have been innocent and pure, but<\/p>\n<p>As the dirt started to pile up, the heart itself became soiled, as<\/p>\n<p>The cuts started to accumulate the heart started to scar &#8211; you see,<\/p>\n<p>Every time one breaks something, a piece of one&#8217;s own heart \u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0Breaks as well<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>The heart has become so hard, Pharaoh&#8217;s reality so distorted that<\/p>\n<p>Reality itself, a reflection of our own deeds, has begun to harden<\/p>\n<p>Around the already moldy crust and the possibility of change seems<\/p>\n<p>To be stuck between a rock and, well, a hard place&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><i>Come to Pharaoh<\/i><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>But a hard place is only as hard as the person (with)in it<\/p>\n<p>Moshe: a faithful shepherd \u2212 a man who would come to a<\/p>\n<p>The hardest of places, Pharaoh&#8217;s heart, because he is a leader<\/p>\n<p>And leaders do anything to get theirs out of hardness&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>G-d doesn&#8217;t tell Moshe what to do; only to come:<\/p>\n<p>How can Reality tell Moshe how to soften the hardness<\/p>\n<p>When the Reality itself seems to be hardening the heart?<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>But Moshe is beyond, he knows that through the process<\/p>\n<p>Of the final plagues, the hardness, seemingly insurmountable,<\/p>\n<p>Will begin to melt into a pliant, soft wax whose mold shapes \u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0Freedom<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>May our inner Moshe, our ability at pure redemption,<\/p>\n<p>Come to the inner Pharaoh, the impure coarseness,<\/p>\n<p>And turn it forever from Exile into Redemption!<\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<p><i>Mendel Jacobson is a writer, poet and journalist living in Brooklyn. 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