{"id":12237,"date":"2008-12-03T01:38:00","date_gmt":"2008-12-03T01:38:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/production.ou.org\/life\/other\/parshat_vayeitzei_sum_of_departs\/"},"modified":"2016-11-28T07:22:20","modified_gmt":"2016-11-28T12:22:20","slug":"parshat_vayeitzei_sum_of_departs","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.ou.org\/life\/arts-media\/parshat_vayeitzei_sum_of_departs\/","title":{"rendered":"Parshat Vayeitzei: Sum of Departs"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>A journey has many parts; by<\/p>\n<p>Studying them we learn and<\/p>\n<p>By their implementation we<\/p>\n<p>Move forward<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Separating the parts from the sum<\/p>\n<p>May make the journey a bit easier<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Here are some of the parts that<\/p>\n<p>Make up the journey of life.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><b>Point of Departure<\/b><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><i>Yaakov departed from<br \/>\n<\/i><\/p>\n<p><i>Be\u2019er Sheva and went<br \/>\n<\/i><\/p>\n<p><i>Toward Choron<\/i><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>All parts begin with parting<\/p>\n<p>And all journeys begin with<\/p>\n<p>Departure<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>But one must know the<\/p>\n<p>Point of origin before one<\/p>\n<p>Can find the point of departure:<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Be\u2019er Sheva is a place of comfort<\/p>\n<p>And peace, where the wells flow<\/p>\n<p>Strong and the covenants stronger<\/p>\n<p>Yet. It is security, home, blanketed<\/p>\n<p>In the cocoon that is family, safe in<\/p>\n<p>The arms of healthy values and clear<\/p>\n<p>Virtue.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Choron is a place of wrath, fury, anger:<\/p>\n<p>The ugliness of the world<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>For a child, even a teenager or young adult,<\/p>\n<p>There must be a Be\u2019er Sheva; but once a<\/p>\n<p>Person wishes to build a life, a family, a home<\/p>\n<p>The person must depart from the comfort and<\/p>\n<p>Security of home for the difficult challenges of<\/p>\n<p>The world<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><b>Close Encounters of the Holy Kind<\/b><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><i>He encountered the place<\/i><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>He came and he prayed.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>One would think the journey should<\/p>\n<p>Begin with learning the new language,<\/p>\n<p>Customs and dress of the new country.<\/p>\n<p>One would think wrong.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>We pray, connect to everything we<\/p>\n<p>Have been taught and everything we<\/p>\n<p>Will teach others; we pray that the past<\/p>\n<p>Wells of knowledge and covenants of peace<\/p>\n<p>Never be left behind even as we move<\/p>\n<p>Ahead<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><b>Ahead of the Pack<\/b><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><i>He took from the stones<br \/>\n<\/i><\/p>\n<p><i>Of the place and placed<br \/>\n<\/i><\/p>\n<p><i>Them around his head<\/i><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Why only the head:<\/p>\n<p>If he feared the wild,<\/p>\n<p>Then the whole body<\/p>\n<p>Should be surrounded;<\/p>\n<p>If he didn\u2019t, then none<\/p>\n<p>Of the body should?<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Because if the head is protected,<\/p>\n<p>Surrounded by stones, hard rock<\/p>\n<p>Solid faith and humility, unwavering<\/p>\n<p>Then the wild of which we speak<\/p>\n<p>Will not harm the body either; true<\/p>\n<p>The body must deal in the physical<\/p>\n<p>But when the head is in the right place<\/p>\n<p>Then the entire body follows suit<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>A head represents intellect, but intellect is in flux;<\/p>\n<p>The intellect differs in person, age and conviction:<\/p>\n<p>However, when surrounded by stones, humility, then<\/p>\n<p>The entire body of work and everything one does is safe<\/p>\n<p>And sound<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>And then:<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><b>Stones Immaculate<\/b><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><i>This stone which I have<br \/>\n<\/i><\/p>\n<p><i>Set as a monument shall<br \/>\n<\/i><\/p>\n<p><i>Become a house of G-d<\/i><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Not gold, not silver\u2026<\/p>\n<p>Not (only) the shiny<\/p>\n<p>Things in life, but<\/p>\n<p>(Even) the mundane<\/p>\n<p>Ones become a home,<\/p>\n<p>A place of warmth and<\/p>\n<p>Comfort for the Divine<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>The Divine in a Torah scroll<\/p>\n<p>Or in a prayer book, is one thing;<\/p>\n<p>But when one takes stones, matter<\/p>\n<p>And makes them Divine, that truly is<\/p>\n<p>A sign of a home, where not only<\/p>\n<p>Is the mat welcoming but the entire<\/p>\n<p>Edifice is welcoming as well<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>We can truly accomplish this, each and<\/p>\n<p>Every one of us our part, only when we<\/p>\n<p>Depart from ourselves, pray and connect<\/p>\n<p>For and to what is true, and put our heads<\/p>\n<p>In the right places.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>These are some of the parts that lead to the<\/p>\n<p>Greater sum of the parts<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><i>Mendel Jacobson is a writer, poet and journalist living in Brooklyn. 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