{"version":"1.0","provider_name":"OU Life","provider_url":"https:\/\/www.ou.org\/life","title":"Time to Drop \u201cNever\u201d from Your Conversations - OU Life","type":"rich","width":600,"height":338,"html":"<blockquote class=\"wp-embedded-content\" data-secret=\"UBzMeBJGVp\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ou.org\/life\/parenting\/time-drop-never-conversations\/\">Time to Drop \u201cNever\u201d from Your Conversations<\/a><\/blockquote><iframe sandbox=\"allow-scripts\" security=\"restricted\" src=\"https:\/\/www.ou.org\/life\/parenting\/time-drop-never-conversations\/embed\/#?secret=UBzMeBJGVp\" width=\"600\" height=\"338\" title=\"&#8220;Time to Drop \u201cNever\u201d from Your Conversations&#8221; &#8212; OU Life\" data-secret=\"UBzMeBJGVp\" frameborder=\"0\" marginwidth=\"0\" marginheight=\"0\" scrolling=\"no\" class=\"wp-embedded-content\"><\/iframe><script type=\"text\/javascript\">\n\/* <![CDATA[ *\/\n\/*! This file is auto-generated *\/\n!function(d,l){\"use strict\";l.querySelector&&d.addEventListener&&\"undefined\"!=typeof URL&&(d.wp=d.wp||{},d.wp.receiveEmbedMessage||(d.wp.receiveEmbedMessage=function(e){var t=e.data;if((t||t.secret||t.message||t.value)&&!\/[^a-zA-Z0-9]\/.test(t.secret)){for(var s,r,n,a=l.querySelectorAll('iframe[data-secret=\"'+t.secret+'\"]'),o=l.querySelectorAll('blockquote[data-secret=\"'+t.secret+'\"]'),c=new RegExp(\"^https?:$\",\"i\"),i=0;i<o.length;i++)o[i].style.display=\"none\";for(i=0;i<a.length;i++)s=a[i],e.source===s.contentWindow&&(s.removeAttribute(\"style\"),\"height\"===t.message?(1e3<(r=parseInt(t.value,10))?r=1e3:~~r<200&&(r=200),s.height=r):\"link\"===t.message&&(r=new URL(s.getAttribute(\"src\")),n=new URL(t.value),c.test(n.protocol))&&n.host===r.host&&l.activeElement===s&&(d.top.location.href=t.value))}},d.addEventListener(\"message\",d.wp.receiveEmbedMessage,!1),l.addEventListener(\"DOMContentLoaded\",function(){for(var e,t,s=l.querySelectorAll(\"iframe.wp-embedded-content\"),r=0;r<s.length;r++)(t=(e=s[r]).getAttribute(\"data-secret\"))||(t=Math.random().toString(36).substring(2,12),e.src+=\"#?secret=\"+t,e.setAttribute(\"data-secret\",t)),e.contentWindow.postMessage({message:\"ready\",secret:t},\"*\")},!1)))}(window,document);\n\/\/# sourceURL=https:\/\/www.ou.org\/life\/wp-includes\/js\/wp-embed.min.js\n\/* ]]> *\/\n<\/script>\n","thumbnail_url":"https:\/\/www.ou.org\/life\/files\/parentingfi1.png","thumbnail_width":340,"thumbnail_height":190,"description":"My husband and I, way back when, were told in our premarital counseling session that when were in the\u00a0throes of a disagreement we should avoid starting our sentences with \u201cYou never\u2026\u201d \u201cYou never take out the garbage!\u201d We were told that \u201cYou never\u2026\u201d sounds like an accusation and puts people on the defensive. This can\u00a0take"}