Dear Aviva, I keep hearing marriage lectures that say texting your spouse throughout the day is not good because it will make you run out of things to say when you see each other, or otherwise lead to misunderstanding. What’s your opinion? — In Love and Texting Dear In Love and Texting, The only time you
Dear Aviva, How do you know when it’s time to get divorced? -Just Curious Dear Just Curious, Way to put the marriage therapist on the spot here, huh? Well, thank you for turning to me. I’ll give it my best shot: All couples have problems, and most of them are unresolvable. In happily marrieds, the
Dear Aviva, I really need help. I was set up with a guy last year and we dated for two months. We clicked really well, and then he suddenly ended it. I was crushed. I have been doing my best to get over him, but I find myself checking up on him all the time.
You’re a young parent or an old parent, and you’re passionate about raising your children in the best possible way. You’ve attended parenting classes, read books, and have been conscientious about being a good mom or dad. There’s one key ingredient that you might have forgotten, and that’s the relationship with the one who helped
The Mishna tells us, “in a place where there is no man, strive to be a man” (Avos 2:6). Sadly, not every marriage turns out to be a fairy-tale romance.
Yitzchok and Rivka are obviously a match made in heaven however they do differ in their parenting methods. It is not so different for in our marriages, many times our husbands don’t see I eye to eye on how to parent.
Like most Hasidic Jews, our dating period lasted a very short time. After two months, we were engaged and three months after that, we were married. This fire was burning in me: I was in love…. But then we got married, and everything changed.
Happy families are families who can love each other unconditionally without judgment. It can be hard at times to remember this fact but it is incredibly rewarding to instill these values in our kids.
Relationships don’t just function on autopilot. If we do not work on them and create space for them, they will not achieve their full potential.
Without the mystery of attraction, you would never get married. Most likely, you would scrutinize the other person to no end.