Ask Aviva: Just Curious

February 27, 2014, by

Dear Aviva, How do you know when it’s time to get divorced? -Just Curious Dear Just Curious, Way to put the marriage therapist on the spot here, huh? Well, thank you for turning to me. I’ll give it my best shot: All couples have problems, and most of them are unresolvable. In happily marrieds, the

I Didn’t Love My Wife When We Got Married

October 2, 2013, by

Like most Hasidic Jews, our dating period lasted a very short time. After two months, we were engaged and three months after that, we were married. This fire was burning in me: I was in love…. But then we got married, and everything changed.

How My Therapist Changed My Marriage

January 24, 2013, by

The article How My Therapist Destroyed My Marriage, which discussed the danger of individual therapy in resolving marital conflict, prompted many passionate responses across the spectrum. Here are some them.