{"id":415,"date":"2026-03-24T14:32:42","date_gmt":"2026-03-24T14:32:42","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.ou.org\/kol-echad\/?p=415"},"modified":"2026-03-26T14:26:36","modified_gmt":"2026-03-26T14:26:36","slug":"three-day-yom-tov","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.ou.org\/kol-echad\/three-day-yom-tov\/","title":{"rendered":"Three Day Yom Tov: Devotion and Despair"},"content":{"rendered":"

72 hours without my devices, no tweets, no texts, no calls.<\/span><\/p>\n

72 hours with my community; my wife, my children, my G-d.<\/span><\/p>\n

72 hours with unhurried prayer, with seders late into the night,<\/span><\/p>\n

72 hours of unhurried meals, when body and soul reunite.<\/span><\/p>\n

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Just down the block, maybe in the same home, the time is tracked differently.<\/span><\/p>\n

Anxious and worried, a contrasting story, dreading prolonged misery –<\/span><\/p>\n

72 hours without needed distractions, facing a void called despair.<\/span><\/p>\n

72 hours with no one to connect to, alone, does anyone care?<\/span><\/p>\n

72 hours with a G-d I’m estranged from, aimlessly sitting through shul.<\/span><\/p>\n

72 hours, how much food can I devour, as I drown out the screams of my soul.<\/span><\/p>\n

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May Hashem grant us all, wherever we find ourselves, all alone or feeling alone, empty or full, down or anxious, an uplifting, strength-filled, meaningful, and connection-filled 72 hours of Shabbos and Yom Tov!<\/span><\/p>\n

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To sign up for the Kol Echad Limited Series E-Magazine, click here:\u00a0https:\/\/www.ou.org\/kolechademail\/<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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