{"id":41963,"date":"2016-09-21T16:29:35","date_gmt":"2016-09-21T16:29:35","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.ou.org\/holidays\/?p=41963"},"modified":"2020-09-08T15:49:43","modified_gmt":"2020-09-08T15:49:43","slug":"extent-hashems-mercy","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.ou.org\/holidays\/extent-hashems-mercy\/","title":{"rendered":"The Extent of Hashem\u2019s Mercy"},"content":{"rendered":"<h3><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><strong>The Storyline<\/strong><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>The story of <em>Bilam<\/em>, the gentile prophet, is most peculiar. It begins when <em>Balak<\/em>, the king of Moav, recognizes that he is in danger. The Jewish Nation had just destroyed <em>Sichon, <\/em>and<em> Moav<\/em> was next. Out of desperation, <em>Balak<\/em> sent messengers to <em>Bilam,<\/em> saying, \u201cPlease, curse this nation so that we can remain in our land.\u201d<\/p>\n<p><em>Bilam<\/em> was more than willing to curse the Jews \u2013 he hated them more than <em>Balak<\/em> did<em>, <\/em>explains Rashi. <em>Balak<\/em> only asked for help defending himself against the Jews. <em>Bilam<\/em> wanted them dead. Therefore, <em>Bilam<\/em> asked HASHEM for permission to destroy the Chosen Nation.<\/p>\n<p>HASHEM said to <em>Bilam<\/em>, \u201cYou may go, but do not say anything I don\u2019t tell you to say.\u201d <em>Bilam<\/em> then set off with his donkey on a journey to curse the Jews. Along the way, a <em>moloch<\/em> stopped the donkey. <em>Bilam<\/em> beat it. The donkey continued. Again a <em>moloch<\/em> stopped it, and again <em>Bilam<\/em> beat it. Finally, the donkey opened its mouth and spoke. An overt miracle.<\/p>\n<p>The <em>Siforno<\/em> explains that Hashem brought this miracle so that <em>Bilam<\/em> should realize his mistake and do <em>teshuvah<\/em>. Even though Hashem doesn\u2019t normally create obvious miracles, He nevertheless did here because He didn\u2019t want a man as important as <em>Bilam<\/em> to be lost.<\/p>\n<h3><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><strong>Putting This into Perspective<\/strong><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>This <em>Seforno<\/em> is difficult to understand. Can we imagine anyone more evil than <em>Bilam<\/em>? He was gifted with the status of a <em>navi<\/em>, thereby granted a fantastic power: the ability to bless or curse. His words were potent. He was now going to use his power to annihilate a people. His intentions were to wipe out the Jews\u2014every man, woman, and child. And he would have succeeded had Hashem not stopped him. This is a man on the level of an Adolph Hitler.<\/p>\n<p>Why would Hashem allow such a man to do <em>teshuva<\/em>? And even more, why would HASHEM change nature to save such a lowlife?<\/p>\n<p>To answer this question, we need a different perspective.<\/p>\n<h3><strong><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">What Did You Do To Be Worthy of Being Created?<\/span><\/strong><\/h3>\n<p>The <em>Chovos Ha&#8217;Levovos<\/em> says that a person should ask himself the following question: before I was created, what did I do that made me worthy of being created? I recognize that I didn\u2019t exist and that Hashem made me. It must be that HASHEM felt that it was worthy to bring me into being. What is it that I did that made me worthy of being created?<\/p>\n<p>The answer is nothing. Because before you were created, you weren\u2019t. And that is the point. There is nothing you did to make it fit for Hashem to create you. Hashem made you because of lovingkindness.<\/p>\n<p>HASHEM is <em>the<\/em> Benefactor. HASHEM wishes to give. Generous and magnanimous, HASHEM wishes to shower His good upon others. Not because they deserve it, and not because they merit it, but because that is the nature of HASHEM: to bestow as much blessing as He can. HASHEM created everything\u2014the stars, the sun, the moon, the oceans, and the rivers\u2014to give to man.<\/p>\n<p>Man, however, has to earn that good. To do so, he must perfect himself. HASHEM is the source of all perfection. HASHEM put man into this world charged with the mission of making himself as much like HASHEM as humanly possible. When man is finished his job here, he enjoys closeness to HASHEM in accordance to the amount that he perfected himself here.<\/p>\n<p>That, however, is the inherent obstacle. HASHEM is beyond time, beyond space, and beyond any limitation. By definition, HASHEM is beyond human understanding. HASHEM wants man to emulate Him\u2014but that is impossible.<\/p>\n<p>To allow for this, HASHEM manifests Himself cloaked in character traits. Those traits guide HASHEM\u2019s interaction with the world. Now, based on how HASHEM acts, man can see Him.<\/p>\n<h3><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><strong>Justice versus Mercy<\/strong><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>HASHEM originally thought to create the word with <em>Din<\/em> (justice) as the guiding attribute. <em>Din<\/em> is proper. <em>Din<\/em> is appropriate. <em>Din, <\/em>however<em>,<\/em> demands total accountability. <em>Din<\/em> demands absolute responsibility. And, <em>Din<\/em> demands immediate consequences. You are liable for what you did. No excuses. No mitigating circumstances. You brought this about\u2013this is the result.<\/p>\n<p>If <em>Din<\/em> were the operating attribute, no human could exist. Man will err. Man will slip. Therefore, HASHEM created the world with <em>Rachamim<\/em> (mercy) as the predominant force. Now, our actions are viewed through the lens of understanding. Mitigating circumstances are taken into consideration, and time is granted. Time to recognize our errors. Time to correct our ways.<\/p>\n<p>Therefore, HASHEM manifests Himself in the almost human character trait of mercy\u2013the key word being <em>almost<\/em>. HASHEM is not human. And HASHEM is not restricted. When HASHEM wears an attribute, it is endless and boundless. When Hashem wears the attribute of mercy, it has no limit.<\/p>\n<h3><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><strong>The Extent of HASHEM\u2019S Mercy<\/strong><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>This seems to be the answer to <em>Bilam<\/em>. Granted he was wicked, and granted he set out to use his gifts for evil, but HASHEM still wished for his good. HASHEM still loved him. Despite everything he was planning to do, HASHEM didn\u2019t want him destroyed. And so, HASHEM tried guiding him to <em>teshuvah<\/em> even if that meant changing nature and making a donkey speak.<\/p>\n<p>There is a vital lesson for us in these words. <em>Bilam<\/em> was a gentile \u2013 a gentile who turned to wicked ways. Yet HASHEM still waited for his <em>teshuvah<\/em>. How much more so for us, the children of <em>Avraham<\/em>, <em>Yitzchak<\/em> and <em>Yaakov<\/em>?\u00a0We are HASHEM\u2019s nation. We are His beloved. HASHEM waits with open arms, saying, \u201cReturn, My children. Return.\u201d<\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<p><em>Courtesy of <a href=\"https:\/\/theshmuz.com\/\">TheShmuz.com<\/a><\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The Storyline The story of Bilam, the gentile prophet, is most peculiar. It begins when Balak, the king of Moav, recognizes that he is in danger. The Jewish Nation had just destroyed Sichon, and Moav was next. 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