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Dr. Deb, best-selling author of The Healing Is Mutual: Marriage Empowerment Tools to Rebuild Trust and Respect\u2013Together, believes in marriage. In spite of challenges, it is possible to completely transform troubled ones into marriages of true friendship, trust, respect, and even passion. She has a doctorate in Marriage & Family Therapy, a discipline which sees problems in the context of the system in which they are found. That means the question she helps people solve is not, \u201cWhat is wrong with you?\u201d but \u201cWhat strengths and resources can we tap to make this work?\u201d While the past is part of who we are and is on the table, the here and now is the main focus of therapy.<\/p>\n

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