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[1] Vebbe Rebbe
[2] Candle by Day
[3] From Aloh Naaleh
[4] A Touch of Wisdom, A Touch of Wit
[5] Parsha Points to Ponder
[6] Micro Ulpan
[7] Portion from the Portion
[8] Torah from Nature
[9] Know your Uncle and more...
[10] From the desk of the director

[1] From the virtual desk of the OU VEBBE REBBE

The Orthodox Union – via its website – fields questions of all types in areas of kashrut, Jewish law and values. Some of them are answered by Eretz Hemdah, the Institute for Advanced Jewish Studies, Jerusalem, headed by Rav Yosef Carmel and Rav Moshe Ehrenreich, founded by HaRav Shaul Yisraeli zt"l, to prepare rabbanim and dayanim to serve the National Religious community in Israel and abroad. Ask the Rabbi is a joint venture of the OU, Yerushalayim Network, Eretz Hemdah... and the Israel Center. The following is a Q&A from Eretz Hemdah...

Q: In our religious summer camp, some items were apparently stolen, and there were grounds to suspect a specific camper. We considered searching the camper’s belongings to try to catch him, return the stolen objects, prevent future thefts, and perhaps educate the offender. We decided not to do the search, but could we have?

A: Psychological and educational issues need to be addressed in such a case by those who are familiar with the case’s dynamics. We will concentrate on the halachic principles.

Moving another’s possessions around while searching is not stealing, which is defined as taking something away from its owner, even temporarily (Rambam, Gezeila 1:3) or using it physically without permission (ibid. 3:15). Simply moving an object to another place where its owner maintains access is not stealing. However, going through another’s belongings compromises his right to privacy, a right that halacha defends. The gemara (first perek of Bava Batra) discusses in detail the concept of avoiding HEZEK RE’IYA (damage by seeing sensitive matters). Rabbeinu Gershom rendered a cherem (ban) against reading a friend’s letters without permission. According to many poskim, the prohibition to do so preceded the ban, which just strengthened the matter (see Encyclopedia Talmudit on Cherem Rabbeinu Gershom, 18).

May one invade a thief’s privacy in order to catch him? As a rule, one may take the law into his own hands to legitimately protect his interests. One who recognizes his stolen object in the thief’s property may enter his property and take it forcibly, if opposed (Bava Kama 27-28; Shulchan Aruch, Choshen Mishpat 4:1). (According to one opinion, he should not do so surreptitiously and thereby look like a thief.) Presumably, this allows suspending other of the thief’s “civil rights”, including his privacy. The Chikekei Lev (I, Yoreh Deah 49) leaves as an unsolved question whether Beit Din can allow one who suspects that a letter contains improperly damaging information about him to read it in order to know how to act. The prominent dayan, Rav Shlomo Daichovsky (Techumin, vol. XI, pp. 299-312) discussed the matter regarding listening devices. He says that the Chikekei Lev would agree that one who has strong grounds to expect being damaged can use such a device to protect his interests. He says that this is all the more so when one has the opportunity to prevent another from sinning. In our case, it is a sin to possess stolen goods or steal more, and the staff might have been able to help facilitate the youngster’s receiving counseling that he likely needs.

One problem is that barring definite knowledge of the suspect’s guilt, one could be acting improperly toward the innocent. However, we have precedent in this regard, as well. The gemara (Bava Metzia 24a) tells of Mar Zutra, who suspected a certain yeshiva student of stealing a silver goblet, because he showed disregard for someone else’s property. Mar Zutra physically pressured the student until he admitted to the crime. Panim Meirot (II, 155) brings some more recent rulings in this vane of physical steps based on strong suspicions.

Another issue is that, classically, it is the one with the personal interest who may take steps to protect himself, whereas others should not (see Halacha Pesuka, Dayanim 4:16). However, this is apparently to prevent people who should not be involved from “sticking their nose in” without judicial authority. In our case, it is improper to allow an apparent victim to act based on his suspicions alone (see warning in Chafetz Chayim, Lashon Hara 7:14). The camp’s responsible staff members, who are mandated to supervise the campers’ welfare and conduct, are the proper people to be involved.

Thus, if the staff’s higher echelon, in consultation with its rabbi(s), were convinced that the suspicions justified a search, they could have halachically done so. (We would urge people to consult legal counsel regarding the legality of their actions and consider all relevant concerns.)
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[2] Candle by Day

Quiet is the honey of the soul.
From A Candle by Day by Rabbi Shraga Silverstein
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[3] CHIZUK and IDUD (for Olim & not-yet-Olim respectively)

In Parshat Toldot we are presented with the blessing that Yitzchak gave to Yaakov: "May Hashem give you of the dew of the heavens and the rich bounty of the earth" (B'reshit 27:28).

What was so unique and important in this blessing that Esav began to cry when he realized that he had not received it? Esav did, in fact, receive what seems to be a similar blessing, albeit in reverse order: "Behold, the rich bounty of the earth shall be your dwelling place and the dew of the heaven from above." How are the two blessings different?

The Kli Yakar in his insightful wisdom suggests that Yitzchak blessed each son with his own priority. Yaakov whose emphasis was on God's help and support, was blessed with dew coming from the heavens as the primary source of his well-being, while Esav received a blessing attuned to his philosophy of life whereby the significant support comes from man himself, thereby "the rich bounty of the earth" is primary.

I once read that the late Chief Rabbi Joseph Hertz referred to these blessings in homiletical terms - that there is nothing wrong in requesting both spiritual and material achievements, but many times parents put the emphasis for their children on getting a good job and fulfilling their materialistic needs, while pushing off the child's spiritual growth until it is too late.

For our unique people "the dew of the heaven" must come before "the rich bounty of the earth." This is why parents must realize that the holiness of Eretz Yisrael should take priority over the "rich bounty of the (Diaspora) earth".
Rabbi Chanoch Yeres, Yemin Moshe

[4] A Touch of Wisdom, A Touch of Wit

R' Meir Leibush, the Malbim, was appointed the rabbi of Bucharest. The first Shabbos he was there, he took a walk and saw that Jewish stores were open and were conducting business. That afternoon, the city notables came to visit their new rabbi. The Malbim said to them:
"Gentlemen, I am afraid I may be forced to resign and leave the city."
"Why?" asked the leaders, taken aback.

"I am afraid," said the Malbim, "that I will not receive my wages."

"Rabbi," they protested, "why should you be worried about that? Have we ever failed to pay our rabbi what he agreed to?"

"The reason for my concern," said the Malbim, "is that when you appointed me rabbi of the city, you offered me a fine salary. I therefore said to myself: this is obviously a well-off community, which can afford to pay so fine a salary. Now that I see that your people are so poor that they cannot survive by working only six days a week and are forced to work even on Shabbos, how can you possibly have the money to pay me?"

Shmuel Himelstein has written a wonderful series for ArtScroll: Words of Wisdom, Words of Wit; A Touch of Wisdom, A Touch of Wit; and "Wisdom and Wit" — available at your local Jewish bookstore (or should be). Excerpted with the permission of the copyright holder

[5] Parsha Points to Ponder - TO-L'DOT

1) What did Yaakov mean when he asked Eisav to sell him the birthright KA'YOM - THIS DAY? (25:31)

2) What is the everlasting significance of the story of Yitzchak and his servants digging wells, enduring disputes over them and then digging more wells until he had his own water? (See 26:18-22)

3) Yitzchak declared THE VOICE IS THE VOICE OF YAAKOV AND THE HANDS ARE THE HANDS OF EISAV. (27:22) The Midrash teaches based on this verse that when Jews are properly making the sounds of Torah study and prayer (the voice of Yaakov), then the hands of Eisav are weak. How is this derived from this verse which seems to indicate that both the voice of Yaakov and the hands of Eisav are functional simultaneously?

THESE ARE THE ANSWERS
Ponder the questions first, then read here

1) The Seforno teachers that Yaakov was hinting to his reason for assuming that Eisav had no interest in the birthright. Eisav was a person who only focused on the now - what is happening THIS DAY. Yaakov was telling Eisav to sell him the birthright since this status is only meaningful to one who looks at eternity and not the now.

2) The Chofetz Chayim explains that we learn a very important lesson from Yitzchak's perseverance to dig the wells that had previously been stopped up, digging new wells, losing those, and his continuing to dig. In both spiritual and Earthly matters, we will always have struggles and challenges. We learn from Yitzchak that a person should never give up in any pursuits. One should keep striving to achieve goals under all circumstances and eventually success will come.

3) The Vilna Gaon answers that the source of the Midrash is a missing VAV in the word KOL (voice.) Read without the VAV, the words spells out KAL which means lax or light. Thus, the verse can be read that when the voice of Yaakov is weak, the hands of Eisav have their strength. However, when the word KOL is spelled in its proper and complete form, then the inference would be that Eisav's hands are weak.

Parsha Points to Ponder is prepared by Rabbi Dov Lipman Mashgiach Ruchani, Yeshivat Yesodei HaTorah in Bet Shemesh, author of "DISCOVER: Answers for Teenagers (and adults) to Questions about the Jewish Faith", soon to be republished by Feldheim - ppp@israelcenter.co.il

[6] MicroUlpan

Here's what seems to be a very common mistake in pronunciation. The color VIOLET is SAGOL, not segol, having the vowels as the other colors: ADOM,KACHOL, YAROK, TZAHOV, AFOR, KATOM, SHACHOR.

[7] Portion for the Portion by Rakel Berenbaum
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On a first glance in this week's parsha, Yaakov Avinu doesn't seem to be so righteous. First he takes advantage of his brother, Eisav who was tired and hungry and convinces him to sell his birthright. Later, it seems that he tricks his father and steals the blessings meant for his brother. Trickery, deceit, and mercilessness are not qualities that we would expect in one of our ancestors (and certainly not ones we would want to emulate).

That is why our sages teach us that Eisav was wicked and was not worthy of the b'chora (birthright) and the b'racha (blessing). From reading the p'shat, we might think that Yaakov is the bad guy and Eisav the good guy. But our Sages see hints in the text that point to Eisav's wickedness. They even say that on that same day he committed five horrible sins murder, adultery, denying G-d, denying resurrection of the dead, and despising the birthright.

If Eisav wasn't worthy of the b'chora and b'racha then it seems justified for them to end up with Yaakov.

Chaza”l teach us that G-d ended Avraham's life on that very same day, in order to spare him the heartache of seeing his grandson straying from his path. This explains why Yaakov (who was usually in the house of study and probably not in the kitchen) was cooking a lentil stew - the consolation meal for his father Yitzchak.

Eisav seems at first to be polite saying HALITEINU NA, please give me a swallow of some of that red stuff. But Rav Mordechai Yehuda Leib says that here tb means raw - like in the verse telling the Jews how to eat the Korban Pesach AL TOCHLUM MI'MENU NA..., do not eat it (the Korban Pesach) raw" (Exodus 12:9). Eisav was so hungry that he couldn't wait until the lentils were cooked; he wanted them right away, even if they were raw. That explains how the dish was HA'ADOM HA'ADOM HAZEH, this red stuff. Raw or semi-raw lentils remain red, whereas cooked lentils turn yellowish (as you'll see if you make the recipe this week). Eisav asked just for the lentils but Yaakov also gave him bread. Oznayim LaTorah says this is so that in the future Eisav wouldn't be able to say that he sold the b'chora under duress (hunger), he had already filled his stomach with bread (given to him by Yaakov) before he sold the b'chora (birthright) for the lentil dish.

Majadra - a Middle Eastern rice and lentil dish
1 cup lentils (pre-soaked)
3 onions sliced thinly
¼ cup oil
1 cup rice
1 dessert spoon salt
½ dessert spoon cumin
1½ cup vegetable stock
Pepper to taste
Steam the onions with the oil in a covered pan
Add the rice and lentils, and fry for 2 min. stirring constantly
Add the stock and the spices.
Reduce the heat and cook for about 30 min. until rice is ready and the lentils are soft

[8] Torah from Nature

The pasuk whose initial letters form the name of this column - MA RABU MAASECHA HASHEM (T'hilim 104:24), is followed by the pasuk that mentions CHAYOT K'TANOT IM G'DOLOT, animals small with large. Let's marvel at some of the extremes of size in the animal world.

Smallest mammal is Kitti’s Hog- Nosed Bat, a.k.a. bumblebee bat, measuring about 3cm long and weighing about 2g. That's about as long as this paragraph is tall, and a weight that is less than half a sheet of A4 paper. It is native to Thailand, and has a wingspan that would reach across this page.

Largest mammal is the Blue Whale, the largest of which weighed in at 187 tons. They can reach lengths of more than 30m (100 ft).

Compare that with an African bush elephant, largest land mammal, weighing in at only 12 tons.

Birds range from the bee hummingbird to the ostrich (6-270cm).

Fish from the Stout Infant fish (less than a cm.) to the whale shark (15m).

Smallest reptile: Dwarf gecko, Dominican Republic (1.6cm). Largest Australian Seawater Crocodile (7m).

[9] Know Your Uncle and more...

The following comments about Eisav from the Talmud and Midrash are taken from the book ISHEI HATANACH by Yisrael Yitzchak Chasida
The Midrash says that Eisav greatly resembled Yitzchak physically.

The Gemara says that Eisav did not rebel during Avraham's lifetime (which was cut short by 5 years - 175 and not the 180 that Yizchak reached so that Avraham would not see Eisav's wickedness).

Targum Yonatan says that Eisav killed Nimrod (and took his special garment - some say it was the leather garment made by G-d for Adam & Chava).

The Midrash says that Eisav encouraged his grandson Amalek to take revenge against the children of Yaakov, since he did not succeed in vanquishing Yaakov.

The Zohar says that there was never a person who so honored his father as did Eisav. This earned him domination in this world. Targum Yonatan adds that Eisav's honoring of Yitzchak is what caused Yaakov to fear him, especially since he (Yaakov) spent so many years away from his father.
The Zohar says that Eisav's tears at losing the bracha caused Bnei Yisrael to go into Galut.

The Gemara says that he lived with two righteous individuals and didn't learn from their deeds.

The Midrash says that Eisav's male offspring were circumcised during Yitzchak's lifetime, but then they stopped observing Mila.

The Or HaChayim says that Rivka avoided speaking Lashon HaRa and R'chilut by telling Yitzchak that the reason she wanted Yaakov to leave town was her disgust for the local women, rather than tell him about Eisav's wanting to kill Yaakov.

[10] Divrei Menachem

Parshat Toldot establishes the ongoing tension between the Jewish people and our enemies, symbolized by the rivalry between Ya'akov and Esav. Our rabbis note that this animosity surfaced from the moment the two brothers emerged from the womb, with consequences that spilled over through the generations.

The ruddy Esav is associated with the other side: he is self-serving, the embodiment of evil. His red complexion is indicative of his murderous nature. While his base instincts could have been used for good, Esav let his nature run rampant, becoming the eternal symbol of cruelty.

In contrast to Esav, Ya'akov is a "dweller in tents", the personification of righteousness. Rivka knew that the brothers represented two nations and that Esav would serve his younger brother Ya'akov. While she under- stood that Ya'akov must receive the firstborn's blessing, Yitzchak favored Esav, convinced that he could turn his ugly traits to the service of Hashem.

Because of his faith in Esav, the blind Yitzchak was deceived. He hears the voice of Ya'akov but feels the hands of Esav. According to Rashi, Yitzchak heard Ya'akov invoking the name of G-d but believed it was Esav reaching new vistas. Of course, in our times, the opposite holds: we must beware of those who claim to be Ya'akov, speaking in G-d's name when they actually epitomize those conniving hands of Esav.

Shabbat Shalom, Menachem Persoff


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