Q Can I give matanot la'evyonim before Purim when it will be given to the
poor on Purim? I'm not even sure if, when it will be given out in Israel,
it will Purim day for us. There is much discussion whether the main factor in mishloach manot and M.L. is the giving or the receiving, and there are several ramifications. The consensus seems to be that receiving is the more important element. In fact, the Magen Avraham (694:1) understands the Ba'al Hama'or that the reason not to give M.L. before Purim is for fear they will finish the food received before Purim. Therefore, many have the practice to give M.L. before Purim to be distributed on Purim (see B'mareh Habazak II, p. 39). However, that practice can be justified in different ways, with significant differences between them. It may be sufficient that the needy receive or possess the present on Purim (implication of Magen Avraham, ibid.; see Pri Megadim, ad loc.). But it may be that when the M.L. collector gives the M.L. on Purim that he acts as an agent for the givers. It is, thus, as if they themselves gave on Purim (Aruch Hashulchan, OC 694:2). One difference between the approaches is if M.L. can be sent before Purim with a non-Jewish courier. It may arrive on Purim, but in the absence of a halachic agent, it was given too early (see Mikraei Kodesh (R. Frank) 45.2). Another difference could be the matter of time zone differences. If one needs to give (himself or by an agent) on Purim, then the agent would need to give it when it is the right time by the donors. (It is not clear whether b'di’eved one can fulfill the mitzva of M.L. on Purim night, when it is morning in Israel (see Mikraei Kodesh ibid. .3)). When Purim day begins in California, it is near its end in Tel Aviv, making the system logistically challenging. (Many distributors give most of the M.L. early and some late in the day). Another interesting issue involves money collected outside Yerushalayim to be given the next day, on the Holy City's Purim. Logic mandates that if it was given on the donor's Purim to be distributed on the recipient's Purim, then one fulfills the mitzva whether you stress giving or receiving (see letters of Rabbis Weiss and Halberstam in Y'mei Hapurim p. 197).
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No one ever tires of silence. “The difference between Yom Kippur and Purim,” said R’ Levi Yitzchak of Berdichev, is that on Yom Kippur we afflict our bodies by fasting, while on Purim we afflict our souls by drinking until one does not know the difference between ‘Blessed be Mordechai’ and ‘Cursed be Haman.’ Can there be any greater affliction than losing one’s power of discernment?”
Students of the Novarodok yeshiva led by R’ Yozl Horowitz, put on a Purim
play one year, in which students portrayed Mordechai ana Haman. Later, R’
Yozl remarked, “It’s much easier to play the part of Haman, because each
of us has within himself something of Haman’s conceit. To play the part of
Mordechai, however, is much more difficult.
Our Sages tell us that "the All-Merciful One desires the heart". This
means that whether we can afford - or are other- wise able - to do more,
or less, the important thing is that we intend it for the sake of heaven (B’rachot
5b). This is seen clearly from the fact that a Korban Olah
(burnt-offering; Vayikra 1) could be, for example, a bull, a goat, or a
dove, depending on one's means. Rabbi Yohanan and Rabbi Eleazar both said: "When the Temple stood, the altar expiated man. Now that the Temple does not exist, man's table expiates him" (Menahot 97a). How can this be so?
Look at your Shabbat table and what do you see? You see Challot, candles
and wine. These three items represent Dagan, Tirosh and Yitzhar - grain,
young wine and oil [used before candles] - the 3 representative crops of
Eretz Yisrael. They, in turn, symbol- ize the 7 Species of the Land. These
crops needed special combinations of wind, sun and rain to achieve a
successful harvest during the change- able period of the Omer in the
spring. Shabbat Shalom, Menachem Persoff, Director, Israel Center [The Parshat Vayikra Homepage] |