Q It seems that every year we have a conflict between
those who want to rush to eat the afikoman by chatzot (astronomical
midnight) and those who want to allow the seder to advance at its own
pace. What should we do?
So, one cannot compare the situation of those who can
easily make it by chatzot with a little planning and those who have
understandable difficulty. Study of the sources is needed to put the
matter into perspective. By when do these elements need to be done? R. Elazar b. Azaria and R. Akiva dispute if the Korban Pesach needs to be eaten by chatzot or by the morning (Pesachim 120b). Rava (ibid.) says that the time for eating the Korban Pesach is also the time for eating matza. Thus, both elements of the afikoman depend on this machloket. Rambam (Chametz U'matza 6:1) and apparently the Rif, pasken like R. Akiva, that we have until the morning. Yet, the Shulchan Aruch (Orach Chayim 477:1) writes: "One should be careful to eat [the afikoman] before chatzot." This is either out of deference to those who pasken like R. Elazar or because R. Akiva agrees that one should distance himself from possible sin and eat the Korban Pesach and the matza by chatzot (Gra, ad loc.).
Usually, the terminology of "one should be careful" in
the Shulchan Aruch is somewhat more than a suggestion but somewhat less
than an outright, binding halachic decision, and this is logical based on
the sources we have seen. We must remember also that we are not talking
about eating the Korban Pesach itself or our first matza of the night
after chatzot, just the additional element of the afikoman (the Mishna
Berura 477:6 makes this distinction). (Some are aware of a sharp halachic trick to obviate the problem. It has both merit and some potential problems and is beyond the scope of our discussion.)
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If I knew for sure that I said AMEN properly even once,
then I would never worry again. Reason: This is because the fast is mentioned as a custom in Maseches Sofrim (ch. 21), but not in the Talmud. Therefore the rabbinical leadership did not object to this practice. (Aruch HaShulchan)
Reason: If one is weakend by the fast, he may not be able
to fulfill the mitzvot of the Seder: eating matza and drinking the four
cups of wine. Once, in a court case between a rich man and a poor man, R’ Eizel ruled in favor of the poor man. The rich man, furious at having lost, berated R’ Eizel and said, “i don’t understand why you always stick up for the poor.” “Actually,” said R’ Eizel, “I’ve been bothered by a similar question for a long time! Why is it that moist times the law is in favor of the poor man?”
R’ Azriel Hildesheimer used to say: “There are three
things about the freethinkers that I envy. They are never guilty of
mentioning HaShem’s name in vain, they never find themselves in doubt
about whether to recite a blessing or not, and they can think Torah
thoughts in a place where one is forbidden to do so.” Here are some remarkable facts about pigeons/doves: They mate for life. Pigeons build their nests with small twigs. The male brings the nesting material to his mate, one piece at a time, and she builds the nest. Pigeons usually lay two white eggs. The parents take turns incubating the eggs. Males usually stay on the nest during the day; females, at night. Both female and male pigeons produce a special milk-like substance called "pigeon milk," which they feed to their hatchlings during their first week of life... It is made in a special part of the bird’s digestive system called the "crop"... (see box to the right) A grown pigeon has nearly 10,000 feathers. Pigeons have been known to live over 30 years. With the ability to beat its wings up to 10 times per second, and maintain a heart rate of 600 beats per minute for up to 16 hours without rest, the racing pigeon is the unequalled athlete of the air. Skinner showed that pigeons have a visual memory that can store at least 300 objects or images indefinitely. All other birds take a little water into their beaks and have to tilt their heads back with each sip so that the water will go down their throats. Pigeons/doves are the only birds that can drink by sucking the water into their mouths. Excellent eyesight, can see color and ultraviolet light. Sensitive hearing, incl. lower frequencies than humans can hear... The fact that pigeons/doves lactate makes them slightly mammal-like, which calls to mind the fact that they were included by our Sages in the prohibition of “meat in milk”. Not that this is the reason, or even a factor, but it is interesting, nonetheless. The word YONA appears 15 times in the Torah.
We are first introduced to the dove in Parshat No’ach
(mentioned 5 times).
Most of the 30 times the word appears in the rest of
Tanach are not talking about the bird - which is the topic of the MRMH
column (see elsewhere) - including 18 references to the prophet in the
book by the same name.
In Tazri'a we encounter another difference. Various
afflictions of the skin or of clothing generate tumah regardless of
whether they occur in Eretz Yisrael or outside the Land. However, since
tumat zoraat can only be ended with the prescribed offerings in the
BeitHaMikdash, the treatment of zoraat for someone living in Chutz LaAretz
would be highly difficult, to say the least. Clearly, living outside Israel makes it very difficult to observe many mitzvot, not only those directly linked to the Land. But wait! We have no Beit HaMikdash. What's the difference where you live? The difference is HISHTADLUS. Human effort. If we were to be challenged as to why we have not fulfilled these mitzvot, the only valid excuse can be that we have no Beit HaMikdash yet. But we should be able to say that we did as much as we were capable of doing - we keep as many mitzvot as we can... AND we live in Eretz Yisrael, eagerly awaiting G-d's help in being able to do all of His Mitzvot - speedily in our time, Amen. - Phil Chernofsky, Yerushalayim
TORAH THOUGHTS as contributed by Aloh Naaleh members for
publication in the Orthodox Union's 'Torah Insights', a weekly Torah
publication on Parshat Ha'Shavuah Perhaps this indicates that we human beings are the pearls of creation. The Chatam Sofer concurs, citing Psalm 8: "What is man that You are mindful of him and the son of man that You visit him? You have made him a little lower than the angels and You crown him with glory and honor. You make him have dominion over the works of Your hands. You have put all things under his feet: all sheep, and oxen, and also the beasts of the field..." With such an accolade we might proudly believe that we are the masters of nature. Moreover, we willingly accept Chazal's teachings that our dedicated service to Hashem can elevate us to a level above the angels. However, notes the Chatam Sofer, we would better recall that one whose sins cause him to suffer from Tzora'at or other spiritual impurities descends to an impure level even below that of the animals. Unfortunately, in our time, we have seen too much of that. This contrast must surely urge us to reflect on the ways in which we daily activate our preeminent human faculty of free choice. Shabbat Shalom, Menachem Persoff [The Parshat Tazri'a Homepage]
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