Q After washing silverware on Friday night, I need to arrange each type in its proper place. How do I do that without violating the prohibition of borer (selecting)? A It is conceivable that there is no problem, as we will explain, but there are also relatively simple ways to separate the silverware into categories without a problem of borer. Rav Ovadia Yosef shlita (in Yabia Omer V, OC 31) justifies the practice of those who pull out forks, knives, and spoons in groups from a pile of silverware so that each will be in its distinct place to expedite setting the table on Shabbat morning. In classic form, he does so by bringing several possible reasons why the procedure may be permitted, even though each reason is not sufficiently convincing in its own right. We will start with the strongest of the reasons in his eyes. The Aruch HaShulchan (OC 319: 8,9) wonders how it is possible to pick out one type of silverware from a bunch of assorted ones. His first suggestion is that because of their large size, each utensil is distinct in the eyes of he who selects. Thus, the process of removing what he wants is not considered borer, but simply taking. Many Acharonim question this proposition (Shemirat Shabbat K'hilchata 3:(78); Piskei Teshuvot 319:6), which may also depend on how tightly packed the silverware is. In fact, the Terumat Hadeshen (#57) already raised the idea but was reluctant to rely upon it without further indications for leniency. Another important point is raised by
the Pri Megadim (cited by Biur Halacha 319:3). The Rambam (Shabbat 8:12)
rules that if one has two useful types of items before him he may take out
the one he wants to use in the short term. The time factor can be
understood in two ways. Perhaps the fact that one will be used before the
other turns the former into ochel (desired object) and the latter into
relative pesolet (unwanted). The rule is that we may take ochel from
pesolet, but not vice versa. If that is the issue, then if one will use
both groups of items at the same time in the future, there is no problem,
because there is no distinction between ochel and pesolet. The Biur
Halacha (ibid.) is convinced that this is not the explanation of the time
factor. Rather, there is a special dispensation when one takes an object
to use in the short term, as this is considered "in the manner of
consumption" and is permitted. In contrast, selection for later use is
more like classic borer. The following suggestions are systems to conform to the majority opinion among poskim, which does not accept the afore- mentioned leniency (Shemirat Shabbat K'hilchata 3:78-79; Hilchot Shabbat (Eider) X,G,4). One is to keep the silverware in a pile and set the table soon before the meal begins, as we saw in the Rambam. It is not sufficient to do the separation soon before setting the table, if that is done long before the meal (Mishna Berura 321:45). Another possibility is to not select utensils from the pile, but to use the opportunity that the utensils are in the hand to create separate piles for each category. After taking them one by one indiscriminately in order to wash or dry, one then puts each one in a separate pile by category. With a little organization, this system need not waste too much time. Others suggest artificially undoing the mixture by throwing them across the surface (like pick-up sticks) and then selecting as desired (Rav Moshe Feinstein, response #11 to Rav Eider). Ask the Rabbi Q&A is part of Hemdat
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Jewish Agency for Israel “Everything has its season”, said R’ Yitzchak of Worka, “If one tries to sell something out of season, when there are few buyers, any buyer will haggle endlessly over the price, and no price will be low enough. On the other hand, when something is in season, the reverse is true. Buyers outbid one another and the price goes up and up.” “The Ten Days of Repentance (and the month of Elul)”, he concluded, “are a seller’s market for T’shuva. During that time, any T’shuva, regardless of its quality, will be snapped up by HaShem. But we must be sure that we have ‘merchandise’ for sale.” If you’ve enjoyed these stories, look
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details. A careful reading of the opening of the parsha reveals two major themes that merge with the concept of thankfulness. The parsha begins with the words V'HAYA KI TAVO EL H'AARETZ - "And it shall be, when you come into the Land..." This verse is formulated in the singular. The Torah exhorts each individual to assume personal responsibility to come to Israel. One should not say that when all the Jews come, then I will find a way to accompany them. The Torah is precise - the responsibility rests upon each and every one of us. A second theme is elucidated in the
Midrash. The Midrash explains that the first word of the parsha, V'HAYA,,
"And it shall come to pass," is always an indication of joy. Coming to
Israel is perhaps the ultimate expression of Jewish joy. As the Or
HaChayim notes, before we begin Birkhat Hamazon on Shabbat, we recite the
psalm containing the following verse: B'SHUV HASHEM ET SHIVAT TZION -
"When Hashem brought back the captivity of Zion" - AZ Y'MALEI S'CHOK PINU
"then was our mouth filled with laughter." Rabbi Moshe Berliner, Jerusalem TORAH THOUGHTS as contributed by Aloh
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weekly Torah publication on Parshat Ha'Shavuah Fortunately, the Torah spells out the blessings acquired for fulfilling the commandments. They are wide- ranging and involve every area of material life. They reassure us that our spiritual accomplishments do indeed bring untold benefits in a variety of areas. Moreover, relating to these Berachot, the Torah employs the use of the term “V’hisigucha” (D’varim 28:3), denoting that the blessings will 'overtake you'. The Sforno explains that if we follow Hashem's directives, we will be overwhelmed by the manifold blessings that accrue, seemingly in defiance of our natural expectations. The account of the blessings begins
with the Beracha: "Baruch Ata Ba'ir," which the Midrash interprets as,
'Blessed are you for the Mizvot that you do in the city'. Here the Divrei
Sha'arei Chaim signals us that we will be particularly privileged if we
serve Hashem in public without embarrassment. Such an achievement most
surely swings the judgment of Yom Hadin in our favor. [The Parshat Ki-Tavo Homepage]
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