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From the Virtual Desk of the OU VEBBE REBBE
The Orthodox Union via its website fields questions of all types in the areas of kashrut, Jewish law and values. Some of the questions are answered by Eretz Hemdah, the Institute for Advanced Jewish Studies, Jerusalem, founded by HaRav Shaul Yisraeli, zt"l to prepare rabbanim and dayanim to serve the National Religiouscommunity in Israel and abroad. The Ask the Rabbi project is a joint venture of the OU, Yerushalayim Network, Eretz Hemdah... and the Israel Center. The following is a Q&A from Eretz Hemdah...

Question: If I am davening silent Shmone Esrei and am around Modim and the chazzan is at Kedusha, do I answer Kedusha? 

Answer: A person who is davening silent Shmoneh Esrei while the congregation is saying Kedusha should remain silent and concentrate on what the chazzan is saying, and it is as if he "answered" (Shulchan Aruch, Orach Chayim 104:7-8). This is based on Rashi in Berachot 21b who says that even if one is concentrating on the words of the chazzan and his status is as one who "answered" regarding fulfillment of the obligation of Kedusha, it is not considered an interruption. Tosfot says he should continue in his prayers because since “shomeiah k’oneh” (one who hears is as if he answered), even being silent is like interrupting. We follow Rashi. 

If one finished the brachot of Shmoneh Esrei and already said "Yih’yu l’ratzon imrei fee…" prior to or during "Elokai n’tzor," he can say kedusha along with the congregation (Shulchan Aruch, ibid.). He should wait and listen at least until the chazzan completes "Baruch Shem…" and probably would do well to listen until the end of Kedusha including the bracha (see Ishei Yisrael 32: (53)). It is even better to shorten or skip "Elokai n’tzor" and take the three steps back before Kedusha begins (Shulchan Aruch 122:1). 
It is important to note that the situation of being in the midst of Shmoneh Esrei when the chazan gets up to Kedusha is not an ideal one. If one comes late to shul and if he starts Shmoneh Esrei late, he will not finish by the time of Kedusha, he should not start (Shulchan Aruch, Orach Chayim 109:1- see details there, regarding when he should start). Many poskim say that if one regularly does not “finish on time” because he davens slowly, then he may start with everyone and not be deprived of the full effect of tefilla b’tzibur on a regular basis (see Ishei Yisrael 33:25). Some suggest to anticipate the matter and start Shmoneh Esrei somewhat before the tzibur or speed up the davening a bit if these ideas don’t harm his kavana (see discussions of the pluses and minuses of various options - ibid. and Yabia Omer II:7).

Fortunate is he who davens at a minyan where he is not rushed and can answer all that he should. Ask the Rabbi Q&A is part of Hemdat Yamim, the weekly parsha sheet published by Eretz Hemdah. You can read this section or the entire Hemdat Yamim at www.ou.org or www.eretzhemdah.org. If you would like to receive Hemdat Yamim by email, on a weekly basis, please send an email to lists@eretzhemdah.org with the message: JoinHemdatya - Please leave the subject blank.

TZIMUK

Yeshayahu 6:3, Yechezkeil 3:12, and T'hilim 146:10 are the three p'sukim of Kedusha. The fist speaks of G-d filling the world with His Glory. Targum on the first pasuk (which we quietly quote in davening) explains the three words KADOSH as referring to His Kedusha in the Heavens, filling the whole world, and being forever. The second pasuk refers to G-d's Glory being in the Heavens. The third pasuk speaks of G-d reigning forever. The concepts of G-d's filling all place and all time are intertwined. This is further "demonstrated" by a G'matriya-Match between the third pasuk and Bamidbar 14:21. 

Hasidic Wisdom, from the book by Simcha Raz (Elkins/Elkins)

It is better that we look inside of ourselves and see what is going on in here, than to look to the Heavens to see what is going on up there.
- Rabbi Shalom Shachne of Prohobitch 

Whoever does not see G-d in every place does not see G-d in any place.
- Rabbi Menachem Mendel of Kotzk 

Let the heart and the mind always be congruent.
- Rabbi Simcha Bunam of Pshis'cha 

Learn to be silent - so that you may learn to speak. 
- Rabbi Mendel of Vorki

Rite and Reason by Shmuel Pinchas Gelbard

Some follow the custom of saying L'HADLIK NER CHANUKA, omitting the SHEL, as in the bracha for Shabbat and Yom Tov candles. 
REASON Halacha prohibits using Chanuka lights for any purpose (other than to see them). The sole reason the Chanuka lights are kindled is for the mitzva. So it is not merely a light, but a Chanuka light, meaning that Chanuka is an integral part of the purpose of this flame. Hence, we light NER CHANUKA. This is not the case regarding Shabbat and Yom Tov candles. These lights are lit to provide us with illumination like every other light... Therefore, they are called NER SHEL SHABBAT (or YOM TOV). They are candles (with the normal function of candles) for Shabbat. [Chanuka candles are not really "regular" candles, since we may not benefit from their light or warmth.] 

Ed. note - Notwithstanding this reason for saying NER CHANUKA, many follow the other opinion to say NER SHEL CHANUKA or SHE-L'CHANUKA as one word. 

It is customary for women to abstain from work while the Chanuka lights are burning.

REASON Refraining from work reminds us not to make personal use of the Chanuka lights. 

REASON To publicize that a woman (Yehudit) brought about the salvation of the Jewish people. 

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WORDS OF WISDOM WORDS OF WIT by Shmuel Himelstein
R' David of Bichov was falsely accused and arrested in St. Petersburg. He was brought before a panel of judges for questioning. At one point, the judges wished to consult among themselves, and in order not to be understood, they switched from Russian to French. 

R' David, who had been standing at attention throughout the examination, suddenly tilted his head away from the judges. "Prisoner", shouted one of the judges, "when you are before us, you are to remain at attention." 
"Your honor", replied R' David, "I heard you speaking French because you didn't want me to hear what you were saying. I know French, however, and I moved my head away so that I would not hear you." 

This unexpected reply so staggered the judges that they released R' David immediately

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From the Desk of the Director

Dear Torah Tidbits Reader,
Parshat Vayeshev opens with Ya’akov settling in Eretz Yisra’el. Rashi explains the term ’Vayeshev“ to mean that after all his suffering at the hands of Esav and Lavan, Ya’akov now desired to live in perfect tranquility. It is a dream that is very familiar to us. 

Rabbi Julius Baker has suggested that Ya’akov sought to return to the “Tent of Torah,” while relying on Esav to take on the family responsibility for material welfare. Rashi notes, however, that Hashem had a different agenda: The righteous should not have such expectations in this world - for they will rest in the World to Come. 

Ya’akov, of course, should have heeded his real dream in which the ladder, a link between Heaven and Earth, clearly indicated that his future was bound up with both the spiritual and the material. Similarly, his son’s vision of the sheaves of corn implied that Yosef was to involve himself in the physical aspects of Jewish destiny. Maybe that is why Scripture recalls that Ya’akov “kept that matter [to himself].” 

Perhaps that is also why the Psalmist, in describing the return of the Jewish people to their Land, invokes both the “dream” and the “sheaves” when he proclaims: “Hayinu Kecholmim. Az Yavo V’rinah Noseh Alumotav” – ‘We were like dreamers. Then he who carries the bundles will come with melodious song.’ Clearly, it is those who are actively involved in shaping the Land who eventually garner G-d’s blessings.

Shabbat Shalom, Menachem Persoff, Director, Israel Center


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