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ASARA B'TEVET
The 10th of Tevet is one of the four fasts associated  with the destruction of the Beit HaMikdash.

Specifically, it marks the beginning of the siege around Jerusalem by the Babylonians, prior to the destruction of the first Beit HaMikdash. It thus commemorates the beginning of the Churban.

To the 10th of Tevet has been added events that are  associated with the 8th of Tevet - namely, the "tragedy of the Targum Shiv'im", the first (and coerced) translation of the Torah into Greek. The day is considered as "dark" as the day of the Sin of the Golden Calf. Literal translation of the Written Torah without the inseparableOral Law, opens the Torah to misunderstanding and distortion, the effects of which have haunted us throughout the generations; And the 9th of Tevet - namely, the anniversaries of the deaths of Ezra and Nechemia, who represent for us the restoration of Torah study and practice after a long spiritual drought, and the return (albeit in disappointingly small numbers) of the Jews to Eretz Yisrael from exile.

In our time, an additional element was added to Asara  b'Tevet - namely, it has been declared as Yom Kaddish K'lali - a day of saying Kaddish and remembering victims of the Holocaust whose actual dates of death will remain forever unknown to their families and all of Israel.

A major minor fast...
Asara b'Tevet, together with Tzom Gedaliya and the 17th  of Tammuz, unfortunately carries the misleading moniker - Minor Fast Day. It somehow came to convey the message that it isn't THAT important to fast on those days. Yom Kippur, of course. Tish'a b'Av? Sure. What kind of Jew  do you think I am? The others (Taanit Esther gets into the picture too, but it is treated slightly differently) - well, no, they're not that required. I'm not a fanatic.

WRONG! It is clear in the sources of Jewish law that a  healthy person - male and female, adult and child from 13/12 years of age - is REQUIRED to fast on Asara b'Tevet (and the other fasts). True, there are several  "types" of individuals that are exempt from fasting. Many authorities exempt from fasting pregnant women,nursing mothers, people with various and sundry medical conditions that can worsen as a result of a fast, frail people. If a person suspects that he/she should not fast, a Rav should be consulted. But healthy people - even those weakened by fasting, but not unusually so, MUST fast. It's as simple as that. Do not be misleadby commonly held misconceptions.

In addition to the non-fasting types mentioned in the previous paragraph, there are other leniencies that apply to Asara b'Tevet, that should be accepted for what they are, and not taken as indicators to ignore the Fast. For certain reasons, the Sages allowed us to begin the fast at dawn, instead of prior to sunset  the evening before. They also did not "impose" upon us the "additional" restrictions of Yom Kippur and Tish'a b'Av.

Only eating and drinking is forbidden on Asara b'Tevet; washing, use of lotions etc., wearing of leather shoes, and marital relations are not forbidden.

These leniencies notwithstanding, the Shulchan Aruch  states clearly that a healthy person who will not be harmed by the fast, MUST fast on the required days.

More on Asara b'Tevet...
It is very important to explain to people, young and old, that fasting and mourning are both important aspects of a fast day like 10 Tevet, and one should not hold back the other. In other words, someone who is not fasting, for a good reason or even a bad reason, still has an obligation to mourn the destruction of the BeitHaMikdash and to spend serious time thinking about the different commemoratives of the day. One must use the day for self-improvement resolutions (which must be taken seriously) and plans for improving the "matzav" of Klal Yisrael. Fasting is supposed to be a help in these directions, but everyone must relate to the events of the date, fasting or not.

In case you were wondering...
Asara b'Tevet falls on Sunday 30% of the ti me, Tuesday 28%, Wednesday 4%, Thursday 18%, and Friday 20% of the time. Never on Monday or Shabbat. Unlike most of the dates in the Jewish Calendar which have three impossible days of the week - like LO AD"U ROSH (Rosh HaShana cannot fall on Sunday, Wednesday, or Friday) - the days of Tevet and Shvat have only two impossibles. And Kislev dates have only one impossible. Take this as a rough sketch. More exact data on someother occasion.

The Sober Side of Chanuka
A patient suffering from pneumonia complains about severe abdominal pain on the right side. The doctors examine him and order an emergency operation to remove a ruptured appendix. The surgery is successful and the patient's life is saved. Several weeks later, following a difficult period of recovery from the operation, the patient throws a party with a Seudat Hoda'a, thanking G-d "seeing him through" the appendix episode. Alas, thepatient still has a bad case of pneumonia.

Do we celebrate the successful appendectomy? I would think so. Do we forget about the pneumonia? Certainly not. Do we dwell upon the pneumonia - do we even mention the pneumonia - during the celebration for the operation? I don't think so.

In last week's Torah Tidbits, the three different battles that the Chashmona'im faced were discussed. The victories on these three fronts were alluded to in AL HANISIM with the phrases T'MEI'IM B'YAD T'HORIM, R'SHA'IM B'YADTZADIKIM, ZEIDIM B'YAD OSKEI TORATECHA. The enemy was vanquished. The Torah was defended from the assimilationist, Hellenized Jew who would have handed the Greeks their victory on a silver platter. And the Torah was defended from those who would reject the Oral Tradition and claim that the Torah was only the Written Word.

These are the successful operations and for these we thank G-d and celebrate Chanuka.

But we still have pneumonia. We still face enemies. We still have battles for Torah "against" the secular world that considers Torah outdated. And we still have battles "against" fellow Jews who redefine "religious" as a "pick-and- choose" what to observe Judaism.

We do not bring this up on Chanuka. But one week later, we have a compound Fast Day that combines events of the 8th, 9th, and 10th of Tevet, each of which relates to one of the Chanuka victories.

On the 8th of Tevet, the Torah was translated into Greek. Simply put, this represents the tearing away of the Oral Tradition from the Written Word. The world - non-Jew and some Jews - believes it has the Torah in hand, when in fact it has an incomplete, uncomprehendible part of it.

The 9th is the Yahrzeit of Ezra HaSofer (and Nechemia) who restored the Torah to the Jewish People. That is a task and challenge which continues to this day. And the 10th marks the beginning of the Babylonian siege of Jerusalem.

As such, Asara B'Tevet represents Israel's continuing battles against its enemies from the outside.

The three-fold, continuing diagnosis is that we still suffer from pneumonia (and worse).

The prognosis is hopeful. With our own efforts on all frontsand with a heavy dose of Siyata D'Shmaya, we look forward to the day when Asara B'Tevet (and the other fasts related to the Churban) will become a festive day in celebration of a complete recovery from what ails us. Until that time, we must celebrate Chanuka and be thankful to HaShem for the many victories He has helped us with and the many miracles He has performed for us. We must also realize that we still have problems on hand. May we see much progress in our time and rejoice in the building of the Third Beit HaMikdash, B.B.A.

And now, for the statistically curious...
Observations Dealing with the Six Fast Days
It should come as no surprise that Sunday and Thursday are the most "fasted on" days of the week. They have their own fasts as well as those moved from Shabbat.

Note also that all six fasts can fall on Thursday - the only day of the week with that distinction.

Although five of the six fasts can fall on Shabbat, only Yom Kippur is observed on Shabbat. The others are postponed to Sunday - you can delay a reminder of tragedy but not bring it earlier than scheduled), except for Taanit Esther, which has to be before Purim. Pulling it back from Shabbat, the logical day would be Friday. Rather than encroach on the beginning of Shabbat,Taanit Esther is pulled back to Thursday.

Which leaves us with Asara b'Tevet as the only fast that can fall on Friday in our fixed calendar. Why not pull it back to Thursday? It is only a Shabbat fast that we move. Taanit Esther was not going to be on its regular day anyway, so the Sages moved it to Thursday. Asara b'Tevet falls on Friday, and there it stays.

Some say that if 10 Tevet fell on Shabbat, it would not be postponed and we would fast on Shabbat. In our calendar, this cannot happen; the point is of academic interest only. It is based upon the wording in Yechezkeil that speaks of the Siege being on the 10th of the month B'ETZEM HAYOM HAZEH, on this specific day. This is the same terminology as is used in the Torah's description of Yom Kippur - hence the similarity.

"He who mourns Jerusalem will be privileged to see its rebuilding." The Fast of 10 Tevet is one way that we mourn Jerusalem. It must be a day of serious introspection and resolve to do our share to improve the quality of Jewish life, to spread Torah and its values among our fellow Jews. In this way, we will be doing our share in bringing about the rebuilding of the Beit HaMikdash, the coming of Moshiach, and the conversion of the Four Fasts into days of great joy and celebration, as G-d has promised through the prophet Zecharya. [Those who are not fasting still must "do" Asara b'Tevet - the mourning, thinking, resolving, etc.]

G'MATRIYA
From the pages of L'ORA shel TORAH
by R. Yaakov Auerbach z"l
Yosef tells his brothers (in pasuk 45:7) that G-d sent him in advance to Egypt, to prepare the land to receive the family, so to speak, so that the Children of Israel would be able to survive there. The numeric value of that whole pasuk is 3161.

The first pasuk in Sh'mot which announces the arrival of Bnei Yisrael in Egypt has the same G'matriya, 3161. The two p'sukim are tied together by their themes and by their numeric values.

[SDT]
When Yosef and Binyamin embrace, the Torah uses the phrase "and he (Yosef) fell on Binyamin's neck and he cried..." Rashi says that Yosef cried for the destruction of the two Temples which were to stand (partially) on a portion of Binyamin's tribal land. (And Binyamin cried for the Mishkan in Shilo which stood for 369 years on Yosef's land.) The Torah Temima cites a verse in Shir HaShirim to support Rashi's point: "Thy neck is like Migdal David..." Neck refers to the Beit HaMikdash - just as the neck is adorned with jewels, so too is the Temple adorned with "the jewels of Israel". This drash is partially prompted by the term inthe verse NECKS, in the plural. People do not have more than one. But two Beit HaMikdash were destroyed.

[SDT]
On these words in the verse, Rashi says that the Divine Spirit returned to Yaakov. It had left him during the years of sadness. This is true of prophecy in general. A prophet must be in a receptive mood for the Divine Spirit to come to him.

According to one opinion brought by Rashi, Yosef told his brothers not to rush on the way back to Yaakov. The Kotzker Rebbe says that we have to know that we are often powerless to speed up or slow down G-d's timetable.

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