Rabbi Yaacov Haber's Torah Insights SHABBAT CHAYE SARAH

The following drasha was given at the Saranac Synagogue in Buffalo on Shabbat Chaye Sarah, 5747 (1986), and transcribed from memory by Jeffery Zucker.

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JEWS IN THE HEADLINES

The events in this week's parsha bring me to one of my favorite Gemaras. In Bava Metzia it says: "A tzaddik says little, but does a lot. A rasha says a lot, but, in the end, does nothing." The proof for the first statement is taken from last week's parsha (Vayera), when Abraham said to his three angelic visitors: "I will bring you a piece of bread", but actually had a calf slaughtered to provide them with a good meal.

The proof for the second statement is taken from this week's parsha, when Abraham negotiates with Ephron the Hittite to buy the cave of Machpelah, so as to bury his wife Sarah there. Ephron starts off by offering to give Abraham not only the cave, but the field containing it, and ends up by taking 400 shekels for it.

I was thinking: What's so terrible about what Ephron did? If you read the story, you see that he made a generous offer to begin with. He could have simply refused to part with his land! Then, when pressed by Abraham to accept money, he did what most of us would probably do in such circumstances, and named a price.

The following answer occurred to me. We all know that there are many people who engage in dishonest business and professional practices. And yet, if you were to ask such a person, when he was just starting out, how he intended to run his business or profession, he might very well say:  "I'm going to do this properly. So-and-so cheats his customers, or provides shoddy goods, and so-and-so has no time left over for his family; but I'm not going to do any of that. I'm going to run a classy operation!"

If you were to ask a high school student how he wanted to earn a living, you would be unlikely to hear that his plans were to be a racketeer!

The interesting thing is that such people actually mean what they say. They talk a lot (sincerely!), and don't realize the force of the yetzer hara (evil inclination). The result is that when temptation comes their way, they succumb to it. A tzaddik, on the other hand, does not underestimate the yetzer hara, and is not sure whether he will be able to withstand it when the time comes, and so he says nothing.  The result is that, precisely because he does not underestimate the temptation, he passes such a test when the time comes.

Ephron started out full of goodwill. But, in the end, he failed the test miserably. He said a lot at the start, but in the end, he did absolutely nothing. According to chazal, he overcharged for the field. He did not even give Abraham a discount! 

It is my prayer that we do not underestimate the strength of the temptations which face us and others. In this way, the headlines should be filled not with people's crooked practices, but with their good deeds.

Rabbi Yaacov Haber

Rabbi Haber is the OU's National Director of Jewish Education and the spiritual leader of the OU's Pardes Program

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