Miriam couldn’t move. The Jewish people didn’t want to wait.
The Jewish people were ready to move. They were on their way to Eretz Yisroel. Miriam couldn’t move.
Miriam became ill with Tzoraas (a form of spiritual leprosy) and had to be in quarantine for seven days. Three million people were ready but one Miriam was not. Should three million people wait for Miriam to be ready to travel?
The leadership of Israel discussed the matter and decided that the people of Israel would wait. It was only right! They remembered back when Miriam placed her brother Moshe in a basket on the Nile and then waited to see what would be with him. Miriam waited for Moshe, we will wait for Miriam.
Back then Miriam took her baby brother, Moses, wrapped him up in a blanket and placed him at the mercy of the current and the waves - and waited.
Of course she waited. Who wouldn’t wait? Isn’t it natural to wait at the shore to see what will happen to your brother? As a matter of fact, one wonders why was she the only one there who waited? Where were Moshe’s parents Amram and Yocheved? Weren’t they concerned and curious about their infant son?
Let’s take a look at the history of. Because of the Egyptian policy Amram and Yocheved decided not to have any more children. It’s sadly common in history that Jewish parents had to question the wisdom of bringing another child in to this world. The young Miriam was unhappy with her parent’s decision. She began to lobby her parents not to separate and to have more children in spite of Pharaoh. ‘Why fulfill Pharaoh’s dream of no more Jewish children?” The parents listened to their daughter and Moshe was born. Amram, Yocheved and Miriam watched in awe as the whole room filled with light. Amram reached over to his daughter and kissed her on the forehead, “Your prophecy has been fulfilled!” he told her, “this child is definitely the savior of Israel.”
Then the evil agents of Egypt came searching for the new child to throw him into the Nile. Yocheved and Amram could hide Moshe no longer. So Miriam wrapped up her prophecy, wrapped up the light and placed Moshe in the Nile at the mercy of the tide. Amram and Yocheved said a final goodbye to their brief joy. Amram reached over to his daughter and slapped her on the hand. “So much for your prophecy!” Their hope of freedom had come and gone. It was a false high.
Hope was gone for everyone except Miriam. Miriam continued to wait and to watch. She held on to her vision and wouldn’t give up. She understood that G-d does not always do things according to the way we feel they should be done. He does it His way and His way surpasses all dreams.
It was Miriam that had the patience to wait for G-d’s freedom. For that vision, for that valuable lesson the Jewish people owed it to Miriam to wait. Out of respect they delayed their journey for seven days until they were ready to go.
G-d does not always do things according to the way we feel they should be done. He does it His way and His way surpasses all dreams. We all have our ideas as to how things ought to happen. We have faith that Hashem will help us but we consider ourselves the sole experts on how our parnossa should arrive, how our health should go and when Moshiach should come. When it doesn’t happen the way we expected it to happen we give up on G-d, we lose our vision.
Remember the vision Jews had at the founding of the State of Israel or at the reclaiming of the Jerusalem. “Hayinu kcholmim �"we were like dreamers.” Are those dreams still alive? As we negotiate is our vision still alive?
It was Miriam who taught us how a vision must be interlaced with patience. Miriam taught us that we must stick to our vision even in the face of adversity. Miriam kept her vision alive and her vision kept the Jewish people alive for millennia. Even when life seems to be going backward we realize that G-d runs the world His way �” and His way works.
Let’s get back our vision. Dream for a moment about the home you want to have, the family you wish to raise and the lifestyle you wish to lead. People without a vision are blind men groping in darkness. Without direction and purpose every day becomes a struggle. Yet life with a vision is inspired and so powerful that virtually nothing can get in its way.
Rabbi Yaacov Haber
Rabbi Yaacov Haber is Rosh Yeshiva of Yeshivas Orchos Chaim in Jerusalem http://www.orchos.org.il and President of TorahLab http://www.torahlab.org Comments and questions are very welcome: email firstname.lastname@example.org