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Look Carefully –
Lives at Work
And Working Wonders
By Bayla Sheva Brenner
Every day billions of people wake up, stumble to the bathroom, try to make
out the face in the mirror, force a smile, and start another day. Once
they reach their workplaces – the person becomes an employee. But, no
matter the title, employees are human. Consequently, workplaces function
as vibrant mini-communities. During an eight-hour span, people affect each
other in ways no one can measure. Within the offices and halls, each
individual serves as an integral component to the whole. Sometimes the
unique gifts offered make themselves apparent, sometimes they simply need
a perceptive eye to notice.
With
200 employees, filling three floors, the Orthodox Union’s Headquarters in
Manhattan has become a veritable village overlooking Battery Park,
containing many an inspiring story from many remarkable individuals.
Like
clockwork, just before 3:00 pm, groups of men pack the elevators hurrying
to make the OU mincha minyan in the main conference room turned Beit
Medrash in time for Ashrei. Many of them have
stepped away from their OU offices, others from offices in the downtown
area; bearing the same intent – to fulfill their obligation
at this time.
Before the 14th floor hallway hum
builds up, Rabbi Eliezer Lederfeind,
Director of Our Way, OU’s program for the Jewish deaf and hearing impaired
community, inevitably the first of the initial quorum of ten, arrives at
the conference room. Carrying a sterling silver pushka
(charity box), he stations
himself by the entrance, in time to greet his fellow congregants and
graciously accept their contributions. A decade since he took his stance
at the mincha door, this employee asked Rabbi Lederfeind about the story
behind his noble mission.
“One day, when I first started working here, just
before Purim," says Rabbi Lederfeind, "the baal tefillah
(leading the prayers) for mincha
made a very
strange mistake in the davening. He said in kedusha, ‘Baruch atah
Hashem..HaMelech Hakodosh’. If he would have done it after Yom Kippur
through Sukkot time, it would have been understandable.”
But Purim comes
approximately five months after the Yomim Noraim’s ten days of repentance,
which is when the words “HaMelech” (the King) replaces HaKayl” (the God).
According to Rabbi Lederfeind, the Shulchan Aruch (Code
of Jewish Law) states that if one makes
this mistake, the tefillah remains completely valid. “But there’s a gemara
that explains, if a person makes an error for himself in the davening, it
could be a negative reflection on him. If the chazan makes one, it
could be a
negative reflection on the tzibur (all those assembled). I was very concerned about this. I
explained the problem to my Rav, Rabbi Elimelech Leibowitz, Rabbinic
Coordinator at the OU. He asked me, “At the minyan, do they collect
tzedakah (charity)?” I said no. He instructed that I get permission to collect
tzedakah, that it would be a big tikkun (redemptive)
for the minyan.”
Given the go-ahead, he picked up a cup, and went to work. He says, on the
average, he collects up to 15 dollars per day; some give a dollar and some
give change. “The total collected in a year comes to about fifteen hundred
dollars. That’s fifteen thousand in ten years.” Initially he used a
Styrofoam cup, until a fellow OU employee commented that collecting in a
cup was not a kavod to the mitzvah of tzedakah and promptly bought Rabbi
Lederfeind a silver pushka. “I use it every working day,” says Rabbi
Lederfeind.
The proceeds go to help fund
Our Way,
the OU program that opens doors of opportunity
for the deaf and hard of hearing in all the vital areas of life –
spiritual, social, educational, and vocational. “Many Our Way members are
in need of scholarships and financial help to be able
to participate in our programs; it makes a powerful difference,” says Rabbi Lederfeind. “Fifteen hundred dollars a year going to Our Way members
who are financially strapped significantly enhances their lives as Jews.”
After the concluding
Aleinu prayer, the minyan members gently disengage
from the assemblage, place the siddurim (prayer books) back into the
basket by the door and many slip a contribution into Rabbi Lederfeind’s waiting
silver cup. Most return to their workday having no idea whom that
seemingly simple action, their daily offering, will affect.
“They say give tzedakah, even if one doesn’t know to whom it’s going,”
says Aryeh Pearlman, a local worker. And some are well aware of the
recipients.
“Anybody who knows Rabbi Lederfeind knows Our Way is a charity that’s
close to his heart,” says Neil Akerman, OU’s Associate Director of
Development and Direct Response Marketing. “It’s really a centerpiece of
the minyan. Before I go to mincha, I make sure to take a dollar out of my
wallet.”
Take a careful look at the human goings on at your workplace. You’re sure
to notice the gifts that bring fullness to each day. And don’t forget to
smile at the gift givers – especially the one in the bathroom mirror.
Bayla Sheva Brenner is Senior Writer in the Communications and Marketing
Department at the OU.
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