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Orthodox Synagogue Network

Is your synagogue registered in the Orthodox Synagogue Network (look for “synagogues”)?

The list is a service to Orthodox Union member synagogues, travelers, and non-synagogue-affiliates who access the list in order to find an Orthodox synagogue anywhere in North America.  The minyanim listed in the database are conducted within Orthodox Jewish guidelines, and utilize a mechitza for davening.

Synagogue Website services: Orthodox Union member synagogues are also entitled to use the OU server for their synagogue website.  The OU Department of Communications staff will help to create a personalized website for your shul or link the shul's existing homepage to the OU site.

To take advantage of this community service, please visit http://www.ou.org/forms/listing.htm

Website pros and cautions

In today’s society, a webpage is an invaluable tool for a synagogue to keep its membership informed about shul and community happenings, as well as a means of attracting local and foreign visitors; and potentially attracting new members.

A shul webpage should at minimum have a description of the shul and its locale, and contact numbers.  Some shuls offer a phone number or e-mail address of someone available to arrange for hospitality for guests.  Some shuls even have contact e-mail addresses for the entire Board on their site.

An unfortunate consideration which must be taken into account is security.  Some synagogues are hesitant to publicize too much information about the shul.  The internet is a public forum.  A synagogue should consider pros and cons of posting information on the website that the shul would not list in the Yellow Pages or in local media.  It might be worthwhile to secure references before offering hospitality.  And if the shul webpage has a message-board or if the site allows people to post links, the webmaster should keep an eye open to assure that no inappropriate material turns up.

“German Pensions for Work in Ghettos: A Claims Conference Handbook"

“German Pensions for Work in Ghettos: A Claims Conference Handbook" is available on the website of the Conference on Jewish Material Claims Against Germany, www.claimscon.org.  This is information on eligibility for German Social Security payments for Holocaust survivors (or their spouses) who performed labor in Nazi ghettos. The deadline to apply is June 30.

Requesting Testimonials from Sephardic Jews

The American Sephardi Federation has launched a campaign to collect testimonials from the approximately 900,000 Jews displaced from Arab countries after 1948, and to educate the public on this issue.

Please share this important information with the relevant parties in your community.  To learn more go to www.Jewishrefugees.org, or contact: Rachael Freedman, Special Projects & JRAC International Coordinator, American Sephardi Federation, Tel: 212-294-8350, Fax: 212-294-8348, e-mail: Rfreedman@asf.cjh.org

Cut Pollution and Allergies for Your Congregants

Most people don’t realize that electricity is one of the largest sources of pollution.  Generating electricity from the burning of fossil fuels is a major component of smog (the largest cause of asthma, now affecting 1 in every 13 children in the US).

Electricity generation is also a major contributor to global warming.

More than half of our electricity across the country is generated by burning coal – the main source of acid rain, and the reason why 500 of NY State’s 3,000 lakes are now dead.

Another 15% comes from burning oil, most of which is imported from Arab countries.

For only $5 a month more, every consumer can have at least a portion of their electricity come from New Wind Energy.  “Wind energy is an old idea that has been transformed by modern technology into beautiful, powerful, energy generators.  One new wind turbine (200’ tall, the size of a redwood tree) generates 4,000,000 KWh a year of electricity (enough for 600 average families) using no fuel, and with zero pollution.  In fact, one wind turbine takes the same amount of carbon dioxide out of the environment as planting 420,000 trees a year

In Pennsylvania, 31 colleges and universities, joined by religious organizations, government offices, non-profit organizations, businesses, and thousands of individual residents sold out the first 9 Million Watts (MW) wind farm, then another 15 MW.  Now, their willingness to pay a small premium for the “green” electricity has resulted in another 125 MW of new wind energy being built.

“Individual residents can sign up for 200 kWh of wind energy (about 1/3 of the average family’s usage) for just $5 a month.  Businesses, non-profits, and other commercial institutions can get wind electricity for a portion or all of their electrical usage for a similarly small premium (the US General Service Administration has two federal buildings in upstate NY that are now 100% wind powered).” For more information about how your shul can become part of the solution,

Fax:       800-495-8048, write: Community Energy, Inc., P.O. Box 1770, Binghamton, NY  13902-1770, or logon to: www.NewWindEnergy.com In NY, Phone:  607-724-0100, ext. 3, Ron.Kamen@NewWindEnergy.com

DNA LifePrint Kit To Find Missing Persons

Provide an important community service while conducting a no-money-down fundraiser.  Community Concepts brings you the DNA LifePrint Kit, endorsed by John Walsh, host of TV’s “America’s Most Wanted.”  Civic organizations and schools make $4.00 per kit, while parents get the kit through your shul or school at a savings of 40% off the website price.

The DNA LifePrint Kit is designed to hand to law enforcement if a child is ever missing.  Having a DNA sample ready could make the difference in bringing home a child alive.  DNA offers a tremendous advantage over less reliable means of identification such as footprints or fingerprints. Unlike photos and physical descriptions, DNA never changes.  DNA identification analysis can identify one person in billions.

The DNA LifePrint kit is completely non-invasive – no blood is taken or handled. The procedure involves simply rubbing the inside of the child's cheek for several seconds with the applicator in the kit.  The applicator is then inserted into a fixation solution contained in a vial.  The child's DNA is then captured and preserved.  The kit includes John Walsh’s Child safety tips and instructions on the DNA sample so you can take the sample in the privacy of your own home.

FBI Officials say having a DNA sample can be useful.  In an interview with the Washington Post, Wayne Lord, Unit Chief of the FBI’s Child Abduction Center, said, “In most cases, investigators will try to find DNA on hairs left on hairbrushes or in saliva on toys or sweat stains on clothing,” but Lord said, “This is not always successful.  Having a DNA sample ready to go could help an investigation.”

The DNA of a missing adult stricken with Alzheimer's disease or other disorienting condition could provide positive proof of identification leading to a safe return.

Call to discuss this program with Community Concepts VP of Sales, Mr. Kevin Jackson at 866-362-5487.

Automatic External Defibrillators

The Orthodox Union recommends that all synagogues equip themselves with an Automatic External Defibrillator (AED).  An AED is a device the size of a breadbox, which administers electrical impulses to a patient in cardiac arrest.  When a person’s heart stops beating an AED is the tool used to re-start the patient’s heart – CPR alone can help bring blood to the heart, but can seldom lead a heart to return to beating on its own.  The quicker an AED is applied after a patient undergoes a cardiac arrest, the better the victim’s chance of a complete recovery.  In some synagogues, the immediate availability of an AED has resulted in lives saved.

Emergency Care Programs, a company who train all of Hatzoloh in New York, is still offering benefits to shuls that purchase an AED through them.  The comprehensive package for each synagogue includes:

  • CPR & AED Training (4 hours)

  • AED Purchase with all accessory equipment

  • Wall Cabinet for AED

  • Medical Control

  • On-Site Technical Support

  • AED Placement/Emergency Plan for each shul

  • Refresher course (2 hours)

  • Free Replacement of Supply Kit Contents

For those located in New York State, a $500 corporate/personal income tax credit is provided for every defibrillator purchased – similar rebates may be available in other jurisdictions.  This fact may be an incentive for private donors within your synagogue.

For more details regarding AEDs, and the cost of the defibrillator and the program, please contact: Orlee Guttman, 718-333-CARE (2273).

Shuls.Net- the Website Creators for Your Synagogue

Shuls.net provides software/web service for a fully functioning synagogue website.  The company uses a four-step plan to get shuls “on the fast track to a paperless office with fewer supplies and more breathing space:

Step 1: Lightning speed, with ease: List the times for services, Shabbat candle lighting, etc.  Catalogue every upcoming event on the web.

Step 2: Work smarter, not harder: Call for volunteers through targeted mailing lists that tap just the people you need for particular jobs.  Send weekly bulletins and timely articles to members through e-mail.  Accept journal ads/bulletin info online.

Step 3: Communication is the key to a flourishing membership;

Send out e-surveys to membership to increase involvement.  Facilitate discussions on religious topics and current events.

Step 4: Make your shul into a membership magnet: Provide hospitality information for visitors.  Broadcast lectures over the Internet, using audio and video media.  Welcome new members by posting the news of their arrival.

Shuls.net can also function as an open cashier office. Your congregants can go online to: Pay membership dues, fulfill pledges, make reservations for synagogue functions, place ads for dinner journals.  You can further recruit local store advertisements for your site, place mazel tov ads and dedications from around the world, Purchase gifts and Purim baskets. For more information, go to www.shuls.net or call (212) 928-9980, or e-mail info@shuls.net

Planned Giving and Bequests for Your Shul

Gilbert H. Jacobson, Associate Executive Director of Planned Giving and Endowments at the UJA-Federation of New York, addressed the last NCSD meeting, at the Jewish Center.  His useful and informative talk was about “Planned Giving and Bequests for Your Shul: An Idea That’s Time has Come.”  Below is his summary of the lecture:

“Millions of dollars flow to charities each year from bequests and other types of planned gifts.  Many of these gifts seem to “come on their own.”  Imagine how much more your shul could generate from this type of revenue—if someone only asked for it!

“Planned giving is a complicated business.  Charitable organizations that have successful planned giving programs usually hire specially trained people to develop this type of gift.  But, even without having a formal planned giving program, there is a lot that you can do to bring in additional dollars to your congregation.

“Place a simple box in your shul bulletin reading ‘Have you thought about leaving a bequest to the shul? Our future may depend on it.  Please call ____________ at xxx-xxxx.’

“Place a check-off box on a bill-stuffer reading, ‘I am interested in leaving a bequest to the Congregation.’

“Both of these options will work. In addition to these, speak to your president about appointing a Bequests & Planned Gifts Chair.  The role of this person would be to solicit about 5 - 6 bequests each year.  This is an attainable goal.  Don’t aim much higher—it’s better to be successful than it is to set a goal that scares your leadership from following up.

“Expensive brochures are, for the most part, a waste of time and money.

“I would encourage your leadership not to spend the proceeds of bequests and planned gifts.  Place them in an endowment fund, so the benefactors’ one time gift will throw off income perpetually.

“You should also be familiar with ‘life income plans,’ which are ways a donor can give to charity while providing guaranteed annual income for his-or-her self (and spouse) for the rest of their life/ves.  This kind of plan can be established with any number of assets, such as cash, real estate, or appreciated securities—allowing the donor to receive income from assets that may have risen sharply in value but which, if sold, would incur a large tax on the capital gain.  The donated assets are not subject to tax on the appreciated value.  In addition, the donor receives an income tax charitable deduction.  There are several types of life income plans, all with their own rules.

“Your Bequests & Planned Giving Chair should target people without children.  Many of them are looking for an appropriate institution with which they can leave a memorial for themselves.

“Your local Jewish Federation endowment director can be of great help to you in structuring the basics of a bequest and planned giving program.  Federations and synagogues are not in competition in regard to these types of gifts.  People do not generally decide between various charitable organizations in determining bequests; they leave money to causes they care about.  Don’t assume that if your donor is not leaving a charitable bequest to you, it’s going to another charity.  The odds are that, if a donor is not solicited for a charitable bequest, he or she won’t make one—anyplace.

“Each local Federation has its own policy about what level of support it can offer to a synagogue endowment program.  At UJA-Federation of New York, we will serve as trustee of a charitable remainder trust when 50% of the proceeds are eventually going to UJA-Federation, and 50% to a New York synagogue (as opposed to 25% for other charities that are not UJA-Federation agencies).  I am always available to offer any advice I can to the synagogue community, as is true for my colleagues around the country.  Anyone in New York City, Westchester or Long Island should feel free to contact me at (212) 836-1305.  I, or one of my colleagues at UJA-Federation would also be happy to meet with you and/or your leadership to discuss how you can use planned giving to help your shul.”

Pre-Tax Benefits for Synagogue (and other) Employees


Mickey Lyons, a member of Park East Synagogue,  addressed attendees regarding “cafeteria plans” in  a lecture titled “Cafeteria Plans; Underused and Undervalued”:

 

“Small to medium sized corporations and not-for-profit firms have recently rediscovered the cafeteria plan – in effect, a two-decade-old tax-break.  Now more than ever it can save your staff money, and it costs you and your congregation absolutely nothing.

 

“What is it and why does it work?   A cafeteria plan, also known as a flexible spending plan or section 125, allows your employees to pay for any benefit contribution on a pre-tax basis. The simplest version is called a POP (premium only plan).  The advantage to the employee is that it allows them to deduct their share of the premium cost for health or voluntary benefits before taxes are withheld.  This simple change in when the deduction is made increases their take-home pay by roughly 30%* on that portion which is deducted for healthcare premiums.

 

“A more extensive cafeteria plan which will allow for even greater tax benefits can be established. Health care expenses not covered by your health plan such as glasses, laser surgery, dental implants, and some cosmetic and experimental surgery can be covered.

 

 “A second section of the same code allows the same pre-tax benefit for childcare expenses, and a third allows tax reduction for commuting costs, including parking.

 

“The aforementioned shows the advantages a cafeteria plan presents to your staff.  The value such a plan offers to the congregation is that it costs nothing to provide the staff with these benefits.  For each benefit to which an employee opts to contribute pre-tax funding there is a reduction in the FICA cost both to the employee and to the employer. This reduction should more than cover the administrative cost for this plan.

 

“When installing such a plan it is important that you obtain the proper professional counseling to ensure that there are no compliance issue transgressions.   This is the first step in bringing your benefit program into the twenty first century.  This is one of the many options available to improve employee satisfaction and to create a better work environment.”

For more information, contact Mr. Lyons at Medical Link Benefits Consultants,

250 West 57th Street, Suite 1418
New York, NY 10107
tel. 212-664-1616
fax 212-664-1601
e-mail: mlyons@medicallink.com
Webpage:  www.medicallink.com

(*This % is an estimation. The exact amount will be determined by each individual’s tax bracket.)

Insurance Policies for Synagogues

Fred N. Hirsch, an account executive at Accordia, an insurance company that has unique policies for synagogues, addressed participants at the last meeting of the NCSD held at Fifth Avenue Synagogue.  Mr. Hirsch summarized his presentation for “Hanhala:”

“A good insurance program allows you to operate your synagogue with the peace of mind that comes from knowing that any catastrophe will be taken care of with as little disruption of daily routine as possible.

“On at least an annual basis, property values should be reviewed for adequacy and increased when necessary to avoid any monetary loss to the synagogue in the event of a physical loss.

“Of course, synagogue insurance should not only encompass property and liability insurance, but should also include Professional Liability as well as Directors & Officers Liability insurance.

“We at Accordia offer our clients the expertise and experience of one of America’s largest independent insurance brokers while at the same time our clients receive the local personalized service and attention that affords them piece of mind.

“We are pleased to offer our services to synagogues and their constituents to assist in all their commercial and personal insurance needs.”

Community out- and in- reach

Rabbi Israel Kestenbaum, Director of the Jewish Institute, of the Health Care Chaplaincy, Joined us for the preceding meeting of the NCSD.  Rabbi Kestenbaum addressed the group with a powerful personal message.  He said that setting up one-time programs does not address the needs or feelings of the ill or the homebound.  Rabbi Kestenbaum expressed his experienced belief that to really add meaning and fulfillment to the life of a patient or a senior who is alone for an extended time – or terminally – is to develop a relationship with them.

When it comes to Chesed programs, shuls tend to create quick-fix non-relational programs – a one day singing visit or bringing shalach-manot or Chanuka gifts.   Rabbi Kestenbaum suggests, to those who want to make a lasting difference in someone else’s life, setting up programs of ongoing visits.  He pointed out that relationships mean give-and-take.  Visitors to the sick should not just drop things off; rather they should stay and listen to what the person has to say.  This makes the person feel as though this visitor really cares.  If such visits can be done on an ongoing basis they give the patient something to which to look forward, as well as a sense of fulfillment and of being wanted.

OU/Parkside Memorial Chapel Levaya Program

The Orthodox Union has forged a revolutionary alliance that will substantially lower the costs of Jewish funerals in the greater New York area, while strictly adhering to the halachic guidelines of the burial process. Eventually, we expect that this landmark “package” will lead to lower funeral costs throughout the country. 

In a milestone agreement, the OU has joined with Parkside Memorial Chapels—one of the most reputable, independent Jewish funeral homes—to create a fixed price of $2,795 for funerals including a chapel service, or $2,495 with a graveside service. According to past, New York Commissioner of Consumer Affairs Jules Polonetsky, “the average cost of a funeral in New York City is $6,700”.  By cutting the cost by more than half, the OU-Parkside deal will revolutionize the already emotional and monetarily taxing experience of burying a loved one.

The plan provides for the local transfer (hotza’ah) of the deceased within the five boroughs of New York to the Parkside chapels in Bronx, Queens, Brooklyn, and Long Island.  The linen shrouds and a traditional pine coffin are included. All halachic details of the program, including the tahara, will be performed by the Chevra Kadisha of the Vaad Harabanim of Queens under the supervision of Rabbi Elchonon Zohn.  Taharot in Brooklyn will be performed by the Chevra Kadisha of the Vaad Harabbanim of Flatbush.

This service is currently available in the New York area.  To access this service, call 1-877-LEVAYA-OU (1-877-538-2926).  All communities can call the OU for information and details,

For New York area synagogues, please publicize this information, and put it in your synagogue newsletter over the upcoming months.  For synagogues outside the New York area, negotiations have already begun to arrange similar “packages” in several communities across the United States.  If you believe a similar arrangement should be established in your area, please call Rabbi Moshe D. Krupka, (212) 613-8225 for the OU’s assistance in negotiations. For more information visit www.ou.org/oupr/2000/parkside00.htm  or call 212-613-8300.

Shatnes Awareness – New Issues

The Shatnes Laboratory has pointed out that many of the more expensive wool suits have linen in the collar.  All wool clothing should be checked for Shatnes.  Many shuls have a Shatnes checker visit the shul several times a year to check congregants’ clothing.  To find a local Shatnes checker, or to arrange to send garments to the Shatnes Lab, call: (718) 387-8520

Synagogue Window Security

Dave Deavitt of  U.S./Ace Window Security and Design offered the following information:  “We have helped various Jewish Communities here in the U.S. We offer safety and security laminates which protect people and property from violent crimes (bullets and bomb blasts), smash and grab type crimes, violent weather conditions (earthquakes, hurricanes, etc.), and ultra violet ray protection if desired.  Our safety and security laminates were originally designed to protect people and property from terrorist acts in Europe and the Middle East.  Recently, testing was done at Quantico Marine Base (Virginia) for the Joint Chiefs of Staff.  Now, many government, corporate and law enforcement agencies including the Pentagon, the Israeli Embassy, and the FBI Complex are utilizing this truly affordable safety alternative.  These laminated films are tough, extremely durable, and once applied to EXISTING GLASS create a virtually penetration-resistant invisible shield.

Under the trademark name Clear Defense, these laminated films will not yellow in time and there is a 10yr warranty on peeling or bubbling of any kind.

An informational video and packet with references, technical data, and just about anything you need to know about our products can be procured free of charge by contacting glassprotection@aol.com or calling (760) 630-6895 or (760) 293-0501,  www.ace4u.com.

Task Force on Missionaries & Cults

The Task Force on Missionaries & Cults of the Jewish Community Relations Council of New York has a website at http://www.tfmc.us/  The site contains important, useful articles and press-releases, the TFMC Newsletter, and other relevant material including the legal guidelines for Jewish organizations.  In conjunction with JCRC's Jewish Legal Assistance Program, the TFMC is disseminating legal guidelines by which Jewish communal organizations can discourage infiltration of missionary groups and individuals.

The Task Force Speakers Bureau provides speakers and videos for engaging programs for all ages and educational backgrounds.  It has produced the first in-depth educational documentary and discussion guide on the “Hebrew-Christian” phenomenon for distribution to individuals and organizations worldwide.

As synagogue executives, there are surprisingly many cult related issues that are important to bear in mind.  Cult and missionary group representatives have been known to get a foot in a shul or a Jewish community’s door by seeking membership or employment within the Jewish community.  Cult and missionary groups, especially rich ones - who can afford long legal battles - tend to dangerously wave the first amendment to defend their members’ “rights” to join or to work for whatever institution they wish, and to preach what they want where they want.  Synagogue leaders must be aware of their own institution’s legal rights.

Furthermore, many proselytizing groups hide behind the facade of “Jewish”, educational, and/or community service “programs”.  Some examples of programs cults have used include scholastic help,

AIDS education, and even Kabbalah study.  Cults employ these “services” to gain acceptance into Jewish or community institutions and to lure unsuspecting victims for their proselytizing.  They use aliases; some “Jewish-Christian” groups use names which they hope will be mistaken as a mainstream Jewish organization.

Synagogue executive directors should stay abreast of the names of locally active cult and Hebrew-Christian groups.  This knowledge is important to know when accepting ads for your newsletter, or facilitators for secular programs your synagogue runs.  If your synagogue building rents space, then this information will prove particularly pertinent. 

The Federation of Jewish Men’s Clubs in conjunction with The Jewish Community Council of New York’s Task Force on Missionaries and Cults publishes a manual called “Countering Hebrew-Christianity: A Guide for the Jewish Community”.  This helpful guide deals with many cult related concerns, and answers many questions that have or may come to mind.  A sampling from the table of contents:  “Hebrew -Christian groups: Who are they really?”  “Jews, don’t be fooled:  Know the opposition”  “Remember who is most at risk!”  (Note: these groups often prey on immigrants or other unaffiliated groups with moderate Jewish education at best, who are seeking a sense of belonging - people your synagogue may be trying to help).  “Fighting back: some suggested procedures.”  The manual contains “Resource Materials” featuring   “Sample presentations to a synagogue Board of Directors”, and “Legal guidelines”.  There is a North American listing of “Groups that are of concern to the Jewish community” - listed by state and province, and “A partial list of Hebrew-Christian establishments”.  There are also sample resource materials, program suggestions, and a “College packet”.

The Jewish Community Relations Council of New York monitors all cult activity, and has a lawyer on staff who should be called if any situations in your community arise.  The Task Force on Cults of the JCRC is also prepared to help you develop a community education plan.

To purchase the manual “Countering Hebrew-Christianity: A guide for the Jewish Community”, call the JCRC at : (212) 983-4800, or write: The Jewish Community Relations Council of New York, Inc., Task Force on Missionaries and Cults, 711 Third Avenue, 12th floor, NY, NY 10017

For more information, please contact the Task Force at 212-983-4800, ext. 127.

The current issue of “Synagogue Trends” which was included with the preceding issue of “Hanhala” has spurred interest in the Universal Torah Registry.  At the next meeting of the NCSD we are fortunate to be joined by David Pollock.  Mr. Pollock is the Associate Executive Director of the Jewish Community Relations Council of New York (JCRC), which is the central coordinating and resource body for over 60 major Jewish Organizations in the New York metropolitan area.

Mr. Pollock is also Administrator of the Universal Torah Registry and has played a key role in Development of the methodology employed by the Torah Registry.  He is also heavily involved with the NYPD “Torah Task Force” – an elite unit of detectives and prosecutors who pursue and prosecute those who steal traffic in looted religious articles.

Mr. Pollock is also the director of government relations for the JCRC.  His duties include articulating Jewish communal concerns regarding community relations issues to federal, state, and city officials.  He is a liaison for the Jewish community with law enforcement officials and is active in the development of intergroup relations strategies for the Jewish Community.

Mr. Pollock has gained a degree of expertise in understanding legal boundaries regarding Jewish institutions.  He will begin to help NCSD members to establish parameters for interaction with unruly, offensive, or otherwise unwanted synagogue visitors.

E-Mail Distribution Lists

There are many important, informative e-mail distribution lists available from the OU.  Some examples, Kashruth alerts, Torah Insights, Institute for Public Affairs updates, and press releases of what’s new at the OU.  Click on: http://www.ou.org/lists/default.htm

Helping Holocaust Survivors

Here is an opportunity for your multi-lingual members to use their skills for the benefit of Holocaust survivors.  The international effort to provide reparation payments to Holocaust survivors is entering a new phase this month with the opening of a customer service center in downtown Manhattan.  Designed to handle inquiries from around the world, this center will be staffed 24 hours a day.  Staffmark has been employed to staff the project with English fluent service representatives with great interpersonal skill who can translate Hebrew, French, Czech, Romanian, Russian, German, Polish, Hungarian, Spanish and/or Yiddish.  There are full and part time shifts – this might be of interest to students.  Pay ranges from $9-$13/H.  Call (212) 271-3900 for information.

In-house vs. “Out-Sourced” Catering

At the last meeting of the NCSD one topic of discussion regarded caterers.  Some synagogues have an exclusive caterer who caters all in-house affairs.  A more rare but similar set-up is where an ‘in-house’ caterer has a business based in the shul.  There are obvious advantages to these set ups:  The executive director does not have to be overly involved with constantly updating and educating this caterer of the ‘lay of the land’; standards regarding which rooms are used, who’s responsible for setting or cleaning what, and all food, kitchen and kashruth issues will be set.

However, there are down-sides to having an exclusive or in-house caterer.  Sometimes such a caterer encroaches on the executive director’s area of responsibility, doing things his/her way instead of yours.  One way to avoid this is by having the caterer book the dining room/hall through the executive director.  The caterer is responsible for the simcha - an in house caterer might be responsible for the kitchen as well - but the rental hall/ball room is the responsibility of the executive director.  Emphasizing that delineation could alleviate undue stress.

Even after the room is booked it is important to maintain a degree of flexibility.  One NCSD member recounted a situation where the hall was rented to a non-member of the synagogue and in the eleventh hour a member insisted that he needed the room and that he had mentioned this to ‘someone’ from the synagogue Board or administration a yovel earlier.  (Similarly, synagogue members have been known to make their decisions last minute as well).  The executive director and the caterer emptied out another room in the synagogue and put the smaller party in that room.

Another NCSD member added valuable input regarding responsibility for the rental hall:  It may be the executive director’s responsibility ultimately, but the caterer makes enough money from that hall that the caterer should be vested.  This director’s synagogue did several thousand dollars worth of refurbishing their hall.  The caterer footed half the bill.  Someone at the NCSD meeting suggested that the caterer’s contract should reflect the caterers responsibilities to the upkeep of the room.

Membership Due$

$everal issues ago executive directors were requested to send in information regarding the ways that their synagogues structure their dues.  The results were varied and diverse.  Below are some synagogues’ dues structures as culled from the responses received.  Local cost of living is of course a factor in synagogue dues related pricing, so actual amounts are being left out.

From the simple to the complex: one shul simply sets a standard “family membership”, and offers (significantly) discounted membership to singles and to seniors.  This includes High Holiday seats.  Of course there are some synagogues which charge extra for  High Holiday seats – and for grave plots, and building funds etc.  Another synagogue also offers a student rate.  Several synagogues break up the categories a bit more, adding a discounted category for families [whose ’head of the household’ is] younger than 35.  One synagogue differentiates rates between singles above and below 30 years old, and one has different rates for singles 29 and younger, 30-34 years old, and over 34 and a separate rate for married couples whose male is in those age groups.  Another shul offers “associate membership” for congregants who are full dues paying members of another local synagogue.  One synagogue offers a discount for members who pay their dues by January 15.

Building funds are usually-but-not-exclusively charged in shuls which have recently done, soon hope to do, or are currently building, remodeling or rebuilding.  Several synagogues have significant building fund dues which are expected to be paid over 4 or 5 year installments.  Building funds too tend to be dependent on age brackets.

One West Coast synagogue has a very specific, age-based dues system.  Their first year’s membership is free, as is membership for singles or couples under 25 years old – but High Holiday seats and a pre-school discount are not included.  When a single, or elder spouse turns 25 there is a low membership due, singles paying less than 1 third the amount couples pay.  From that point on every year until they reach 41 years old, their dues increase by $25 increments.  For members 41 years old and older there is a standard amount.  There are “Patron” memberships, as well as several other more expensive levels of membership.  Membership includes one high holiday seat per member.  Extra seats are available to members for a fee.

Synagogues utilize differing methods for their Orthodox Union synagogue membership dues.  Most synagogues include OU dues in their budget.  Some synagogues add a directed $10 to  members’ synagogue dues, and others collect OU dues in a separate appeal or mailing.

The most innovative membership campaign came from the East Coast.  A plan that a synagogue Board of Trustees recently adopted has the synagogue bookkeeper tallying up the average that each member gave to the synagogue during the preceding two years.  This includes dues,  High Holiday seats,  Kol Nidre appeal, and dinner-journal.  Each member will then be required to pay their individual average, plus an additional 10% in 1999, another 10% in 2000 and a final additional 5% in 2001, when the plan will be reviewed.  Members have the choice of paying the additions all at once, or over the course of the year on a monthly basis.  The synagogue would run its annual dinner, but as a tribute or a social event, not as a fund raiser – plates would be sold at cost.  The synagogue would not do any additional fundraising during the year so that it can devote its resources to running programs and not to raising money.  New members would have nominal dues, differentiating between singles and couples.  After their first year, new members would be asked to move up to the commitment levels of existing members and if possible, to take a leadership role in supporting the synagogue financially.

This synagogue wants its members to realize that it takes money to effectively run a vibrant, active synagogue – and that if the synagogue staff has to constantly remind the membership to contribute to various programs throughout the year, the staff’s effectiveness is diminished.  The synagogue also believes that it will change people’s perception of their relationship to the synagogue, changing the view of members’ financial commitments from a gift to an obligation.  It’s an interesting plan which the synagogue leadership realizes will take a lot of continued work with the members on an individual basis.  Stay tuned for reports of this plan’s implementation and degree of success.

Fundraising through Magazine Subscriptions

One tried and true method of peripheral synagogue fund-raising is magazine subscription sales.  Magazine’s earn their keep from advertisers, not from subscribers.  Advertisers pay higher advertising prices for magazines with more subscribers.  Thus, magazines will reduce prices to just about the price of printing and mailing to increase their subscribers.

Synagogues can thus sell magazine subscriptions at competitive rates, and keep a substantial percentage of net.  But not-for-profit organizations are sometimes wary of magazine sales because fund-raisers often guilt people into buying things they don’t want.  A solution is to get synagogue members into the habit of buying any magazine subscription they get through the shul - bulletins could announce this initiative, and “periodical”ly announce the profits to-date.  For information call Maynard Merel at (888) 857-4636.

Donating Leftovers

After a big kiddush, a  Lag B’omer picnic, or a Bris synagogues have the mixed blessing of leftovers - often lots of them.  A common question executive directors ask, is what do we do with leftovers.  Some communities have volunteers who deliver their leftovers to designated recipients.  This food can be of great assistance to homebound and the less well off.  Unfortunately all too often such food is wasted.

Dr. Alan Singer, Executive Director of Congregation Shearith Israel found a noteworthy solution to this issue for the Upper Manhattan area:  “At the March 18, 1998 Executive directors meeting, I described our distribution of leftover food to the kosher kitchen at Metro House, 117 West 70th Street.  Half of the 60 residents are Jewish, many of them formerly homeless.  Other than one hot kosher meal per day (airline style), which they purchase for $1, any other food must come out of their limited personal funds.

“It is a pity to discard leftovers when needy Jews are close by...” Dr. Singer arranged to foot the bill for a messenger service - “Brisk”, which will pick up local shuls’ leftovers for a discounted price.

Renting Synagogue Space To Non-Members

As Orthodox Jews, we desire to embrace all Jewish people.  Out of prudence, the synagogue is available for rental (much of a shul’s budget may come about this way) - however, a bris-milah presents a noteworthy consideration:  there is a tendency to look back at the location where a bris ceremony was held in order to determine a man’s Jewish validity.  This means that by allowing the bris of a stranger to take place in an Orthodox shul, the shul is - indirectly and unintentionally - “certifying“ the bris recipient as a Jew  within the parameters of Orthodox Judaism.  Although we value bringing new families closer to a Torah environment, this external assumption must be realized.  The same consideration should be made regarding weddings, as a marriage’s validity is sometimes assumed based upon where it took place.

There were two methods presented.  Both views stress the need for rabbinical input on deciding who should be allowed to have certain religious ceremonies within the shul.  One opinion is that only the rabbi of the synagogue be allowed to perform weddings in the shul.  This allows the rabbi to assure that only couples who meet Orthodox Jewish standards as defined by the Rabbi could marry in the shul, thus legitimizing the assumption that couples married there are Jewish within Orthodox parameters, and that their wedding is truly mekudash.  It is rarer however to find a shul rabbi  who conducts brissim, so this method of deciding which non-members of the synagogue can use the shul would rarely work regarding bris-milah.

The second approach works for brissim and for weddings.  In this method, the rabbi sets a standard - or even provides a list - of acceptable rabbi’s who are allowed to perform ritual ceremonies in the shul.  Again this method assures that the assumption of acceptability of the man or the couple that is apt to occur will be correct.

The obvious danger of either of these methods lies in the possibility that not every synagogue will uphold these strictures.  If some synagogues are this strict, the synagogues which are may be cited to prove the assumptions of legitimacy for synagogues which aren’t.  This concern is backwards.  Synagogues need to be wary of the potential for people to assume that “the synagogue makes the man”; this potential exists even if not one Orthodox synagogue set standards.

A question with less monumental significance is, does the synagogue allow non-member bar-mitzvah’s.  Beside the position that allows for bar-mitzvah’s of non-members, regardless, this question saw four approaches:  1. Some shuls simply do not allow non-member bar mitzvah’s in the synagogue.  This hard-line approach is more difficult for shuls that “leb fun dem” - synagogues dependent on every possible rental of the facility to make ends meet.  2. Some synagogues do not allow non members to hold bar mitzvah’s in the shul on shabbos, but allow it during the week.  3. Other shuls allow outsiders to have bar-mitzvah’s in the synagogue provided that the bar-mitzvah (boy) goes through the synagogues Hebrew school (synagogues can adjust this to: studying with the rabbi, or with a teacher appointed or accepted by the rabbi).  4.  And then there are legends of synagogues who allow “outside” bar-mitzvah’s in the shul, but they charge the family rental + the price of membership for the affair.  Yes, the bar-mitzvah’s family is then entitled to the benefits of membership.

Whether he’s a “maintenance man”, a “janitor”, a “custodian”, or a “superintendent”, the role he plays in the synagogue is crucial.  Often, his tenure precedes the executive director’s.  Sometimes he does not work up to the level of an executive director’s expectations.  In such cases, he is sometimes nonetheless kept on for sentimental reasons.  In these cases, a Board needs to see clear incompetence before any moves toward dismissal can be introduced.  If the Board still insists on keeping him on, try to view the (tenuous) positive side:  the Board has Okayed an amount of incompetence.  Other times he’s kept on because he has an expertise as a “Shabbos goy” - this is an important consideration, and with the rabbi’s halachic guidance a significant compensation.  One anecdotal  caveat:  legend tells of the synagogue who’s Jewishly entrenched custodian converted k’din u-k’halacha.  Now he’s not just the janitor, he’s also a member.


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