As I looked out the window of the El Al jet, the plane was lifting off the runway. The fellow beside me was already snoring. A tall, denim-clad woman sprawled on the seat across the aisle watched with… Read more
Opinion
Who is a Ba’al Teshuvah? Thoughts of a Now-Orthodox Adult Raised in a Non-Orthodox Family
I grew up in a home where we usually watched Saturday morning cartoons on television, where we often ate chazir, where we sometimes opened presents set under a Christmas tree. In the context of… Read more
Religious and Isolated on Campus: A Price Worth Paying
Though I proudly wear my kippah and am thus identifiably Jewish, I often keep my religious life to myself. Being a religious Jew on campus is an isolating experience. Despite the ongoing learning… Read more
A Delicate Balance: The Role of the Rebbetzin
The rebbetzin’s creed should be similar to that of the physician: “Above all, do no harm.” The rest is commentary. Now for the commentary. First, a definition: for the purposes of this little… Read more
Rising to the Occasion: Reviving the Practice of Standing up to Honor One’s Parents
“In the period that will precede the coming of Mashiach . . . youth will blanch the faces of elders; elders will stand in the presence of minors—the son derides his father; a daughter rises against… Read more
Blended Love
Serena is the very first one to step into the auditorium, her steps timed to the beat of “Pomp and Circumstance” banged out on the old piano. She is the shortest by a hair of the twelfth-grade… Read more
An Unintentional Intermarriage
A strange thing happened on the way to my becoming a ba’alat teshuvah: I discovered I was not a Jew. I made this discovery about fifteen years ago at the happy and lively Shabbat table of an engaging… Read more
Leaving Egypt in Romania
It was the first night of Pesach, and on a holiday that celebrates questions, I began by asking one. “Where are we tonight?” We were 150 people, participants in a communal Seder I led last year in… Read more
Life As a Happy Single Person
I bought couches. They are beige, with button detail on the sides and dark wood trim. I bought a variety of pillows to go on them, chocolate brown and light blue—silk, suede and cotton. I rearranged… Read more
The Art of Leading a Seder
Participating in a Seder comes naturally to those who grew up in observant families or who had the benefit of a Jewish day school education. But what about ba’alei teshuvah or those who don’t have an… Read more















